abandoned by husband & need help

[virgobaby7735]

My husband moved us from Michigan to Tennessee 4 yrs ago because he got a girl pregnant during an affair. 1 yr after we moved he said he was going to work for a company that traveled the country. He actually had his new babies mom pick him up in the middle of the night. I haven't heard from him since that night. I am now on SSI and desperately need a divorce but can't afford to pay a lot or pay it all at once. I also have no idea where he is. Can someone PLEASE help me.

 

[BayState]

My husband moved us from Michigan to Tennessee 4 yrs ago because he got a girl pregnant during an affair. 1 yr after we moved he said he was going to work for a company that traveled the country. He actually had his new babies mom pick him up in the middle of the night. I haven't heard from him since that night. I am now on SSI and desperately need a divorce but can't afford to pay a lot or pay it all at once. I also have no idea where he is. Can someone PLEASE help me.

Do you and the adulterous hubby have children? If so, how old? Have your considered filing pro se?

 

[army judge]

My husband moved us from Michigan to Tennessee 4 yrs ago because he got a girl pregnant during an affair. 1 yr after we moved he said he was going to work for a company that traveled the country. He actually had his new babies mom pick him up in the middle of the night. I haven't heard from him since that night. I am now on SSI and desperately need a divorce but can't afford to pay a lot or pay it all at once. I also have no idea where he is. Can someone PLEASE help me.

Here are a few self-help sites you can investigate.

I take you are in TN, so that's what I investigated.

If you are in another state, just substitute that sate for TN.

I'm not recommending them, mind you, just saying they are there.

https://www.rocketlawyer.com/secure...te=Tennessee&gclid=CMKh2uqyrLMCFaOaPAodzQIAew

http://divorcesupport.about.com/od/statedivorcelaws/a/Tenn_Laws.htm

http://www.selegal.org/Self-Help/Booklets/INSTAGUIDE TO FAMILY LAW.pdf

You can Google "TN abandonment divorce" and find more yourself.