Nothing. Visitation when we were in Ca. was minimal on his part. Once he moved I sent them out to him for a summer, and he would come out to visit them the following year for a weekend. This is just something we verbally agreed upon. Nothing has been court-ordered.
I divorced my husband 6 years ago in Ca. and was awarded full physical custody of our 2 children (12 and 8) as he did not show up to contest it or ask for visitation of any kind. After our divorce he moved to NY. We have been on good terms and I have sent the children to visit him in NY for...