My husband was an army medic paratrooper in Vietnam. I don't think we can ever thank the soldiers who fought in that conflict enough. I have enormous respect for them and all military veterans.
You aren't in a union, correct? You're talking about just a regular old offer letter in an at will state, correct? You are sadly mistaken if you think they have to honor what's written in an offer letter (which, incidentally, they have. You are being trained on a day shift. That means you are...
Why do you think only you are entitled to your parent's house and that your siblings are not? Neither your mother nor your father took any steps to leave their house solely to you, so your entitled attitude is a bit outrageous. You should probably rethink that stance.
You're living in your elderly mother's apartment, not in an apartment you both jointly rent. If the landlord wants you gone, you need to leave. Taking care of your mother doesn't give you tenant rights. If there was a fight between yourself and your mother that was so bad that the police were...
In whose opinion is this case not so serious? Your opinion? The court's opinion? I think you are not taking this matter seriously and that's going to come back and bite you in the butt.
So, the crime was made up on the spot? There has to be a crime on the law books to be charged with it because why would they go forward with charging someone with something that isn't a crime?
If what you did isn't a crime, you wouldn't be facing a trial for it. Your lawyer cannot guarantee that there will be no conviction. That isn't up to your lawyer.