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    Regaining Weekend Custody

    1. I wouldn't post any identifying information (like your photo and name) when you have a custody case going on. All it takes is your ex to search and find this. And use it against you. 2. "I wanna get even..." That just, to me, says you don't care about your kids and you just want to hurt...
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    CPS/DCF substance abuse

    First off - stop drinking alcohol if you haven't. You do have an issue with alcohol if you're getting DUIs. DUIs don't just happen...that's a choice. Get a lawyer. You don't have to talk to anyone if you don't want to. But get some help with the alcohol for real - your kids don't deserve to...
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    Slander

    It seemed pretty obvious that the OPs wife has an ex girlfriend and an ex that's a male. Probably bisexual which isn't uncommon. She said that the father of one of wife's children...so she may have children with different fathers. Also not unusual.
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    Ex GF Climbs On Top Of Former Boyfriend’s Vehicle. Former BF Drives Away Slowly - CPS Now Involved

    Just walk away. If she doesn't go to work - not your problem. You have no ties to her. You don't share children with her. You shouldn't have called her or gone over there at all. Stay away from the crazy. You hired a lawyer - LISTEN TO YOUR LAWYER. That's what you're paying them for. I meant...
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    Son in Law

    Have you talked to your wife? Maybe you need to reevaluate your relationship...the only way you get away from him, it sounds like, is get away from her too. If she's going to enable him...or you talk to her and tell her she's enabling him and try to get him out that way.
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    Harassment, Stalking, Misconduct Male friend I'm dating spies on me through my cable and says he has PIs

    Just get your ducks in a row and leave. Don't worry about vengeance. Just leave. Yes it's hard to leave abusive or controlling relationships. But just end it. If you end it and he keeps harassing you then file a PO. But first you gotta leave.
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    Visitation During Social Distancing

    Failed at the relationship? It's not failure when you leave an addict and keep your kid from the addict. It sounds like the other parent is consistently absent. Plus it's a worldwide pandemic occurring right now. I definitely wouldn't let my kid go right now either.
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    My girlfriend is pregnant. I'm 16. I want to marry her but my legal guardians said they wont let me.

    Why would you plan to have a child as a teenager? The person on Justia was right -- you were irresponsible. Both of you. No one considers children "illegitimate" anymore if they are born out of marriage. It's 2020...not 1920. You can be a father and take care of a child as a teenager without...
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    Question

    The drug part - that was stupid. That's on you. Stop doing drugs if you haven't. Wait til your kids are grown and out of the house...not that hard to do. The medical stuff see the post below. There are doctors that do falsely accuse parents of neglect where none exists. If you don't like the...
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    Question

    Where did she say they were "grossly obese" or the diet she fed them?
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    Question

    "Overweight" is pretty subjective especially when the US still uses BMI - which is seriously antiquated and inaccurate. This - A doctor diagnosing child abuse is missing a key thing: Her certification to do it This woman ruined families and reported abuse where none existed. There are doctors...
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    Violation of Parenting Plan

    But she still is supposed to provide an itinerary and contact information during travel.
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    Violation of Parenting Plan

    So you're the stepfather? You need to tread lightly. I'm serious. I was a stepparent and it's a fine line you have to balance as a stepparent especially with custody issues. I get it. I did the same thing you did at a point when my ex's first ex wife was seriously in contempt using lack of...
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    Violation of Parenting Plan

    If she's so concerned SHE needs to take this matter into her hands and ask the questions. Not you. Did she provide the other parent with an itinerary no less than 7 days prior to the out of state travel? If yes, no problem. If no, possible issue. Very hard to prove that she purposely ignored...
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    Violation of Parenting Plan

    Are you the father? If no, then you have no legal bearing in this case. The father needs to create an account and ask any questions. You need to see your way out of their parenting issues. Even if you're a stepparent. It's not your lane. If you want to help the father hire a lawyer, you can do...
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    My father was the victim of physical and emotional domestic abuse, and I'm looking for advice on wha

    The OP can do all that - but if his father doesn't want it, then it won't happen. The OP can't make his father leave or file anything. Usually dv victims will resist those who try to make them do things even if it's in their best interest.
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    My father was the victim of physical and emotional domestic abuse, and I'm looking for advice on wha

    It must have changed - last I read there was one in Texas and that was the only one at the time but it has been awhile since I looked into it. My bad - I see one in Arkansas opened in 2017 that was believed to be the first registered shelter for male dv victims then joined by one in Dallas as...
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    My father was the victim of physical and emotional domestic abuse, and I'm looking for advice on wha

    That's easier said than done...you can tell someone to leave all you want. They won't until they're ready. I'm a survivor and I have been trying to get my mom to leave her shitty husband and she refuses for some reason. But I continue to let her know she has a place to stay with me. As do my...
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    My father was the victim of physical and emotional domestic abuse, and I'm looking for advice on wha

    Your father has to call the police and file a report. You can't do it for him. Yes it is extremely hard for male victims of dv - they are in the dark ages still. There's one dv shelter in the entire US for males and it's in Texas. If he doesn't want legal recourse, it won't happen...
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