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If it will make your child's quality of life better why wouldn't you do it? What do your court decree say about unreimbursed medical? My decree states we split unreimbursed medical - with no stipulation on if its medically necessary or not. (I never get it though and luckily have awesome...

It doesn't matter what he spends the money on. You can modify the child support order but anything YOU have in arrears you will have to pay him.

. Child support goes to the parent that it is ordered to go to - it's never intended to be for the kids. It's intended to support the kids' needs. So even if someone pays child support arrears after the kids are the age of majority it goes to the parent. He's getting the money that you owe him...

You need a lawyer or find the lawyer who was supposed to file your parenting plan. If your ex never established paternity, he is not legally the father. You could just go get the child. However if he has paid child support then his paternity was established in that order. You really need a lawyer.

What does the current, court approved custody decree state? It doesn't ultimately matter what you verbally agreed to. The judge will look at what is in your approved decree for parenting time and custody. I suggest talking to a lawyer -some do free consultations.

Verbal child support agreements are the dumbest thing anyone can do...if he files for child support you will go to court for it. Yes anyone can file for child support - will they get it? That's up to the judge. You said you have a court ordered parenting plan so I assume had a paternity test...

You need a lawyer...months ago. Oh yes the system is rigged even though you fully admit that you had a violent ex living with you and that you had a drug problem, anger issues, etc. But yes - it's the state's fault you had your kids taken away.

You take him to court for contempt...you really, really need a lawyer. The judge is going to look at what the last written and signed order states but will likely take into account the verbal agreement. If you don't take any action then that's on you but he's in violation of the custody order...

You hire a lawyer - that's the only way you get professional legal advice. If you reference the disclaimer below it tells you as much and that this site has people on it who volunteer time but are not necessarily lawyers. A few are or have been but not everyone.

Oh please. There is plenty of evidence that shows the medical benefits of marijuana. I'm not talking about the laced crap people buy on the street. If it gets legalized and regulated, it would be beneficial. It is in no way similar to tobacco. At all. Ever. It was well known by tobacco companies...

Ah but there are edibles...so he could just be using marijuana that way. I see nothing wrong with that either though. Marijuana of all drugs is the least of worries out there and actually has medical benefits.

I think you need to break up with your girlfriend...she obviously is interested in this guy. She is not worth the drama. She told you to leave and they were talking for 30 minutes - and she's clearly into some kinky stuff. "Emotionally distraught..." that's a good one. Pretty common response...

How old is she? I know some kids graduate at 17...but you said she's a year older than you. Stop contacting this person and just let it go. Go with what you said about not sending anymore nude photos. That's probably for the best. I'm not sure why the dad would call the police unless you keep...

I hear ya - been there. But it's not worth it. Just put his stuff outside the front door. Or tell him you'll leave it with a mutual friend. Don't play petty with this it's ultimately not worth it. The stuff he owns isn't worth near what he owes you. He doesn't deserve anything. True. But be...

Yeah you need a lawyer who specializes in this.

It's not necessarily true that if you were to be incapacitated or died, that he would get the kids. If something happened to me, there's no way our daughter would go straight to my ex husband (her "father") when he hasn't seen her in 2 years, he hasn't paid child support in 3 and he doesn't...

Charged with a crime of a sexual nature...DUI history... Perhaps do what the judge said and get some counseling. Get your crap together - and stop finding ways to make your ex look like the "bad guy" and focus on your life. Also - no never tell your kids "the truth." Kids know the truth. For...

Let him think what he wants - he'll find out eventually how wrong he is. Concur get a job - child support is never going to completely take care of your child nor should it since it's supposed to be what they would contribute if they still lived at home. My ex husband hasn't paid child...

I recommend you find a new one.

You need to be talking to your lawyer - you said you have a court appointed lawyer.