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That doesn't mean there's a contract. I have heard of plenty of people who made verbal agreement on child support. Not through the court. There's no way to prove a verbal agreement. Unless texts or emails. He could stop paying now if he wanted.

Semantics - the point is that we relayed that while still married each parent can take the kids and the other parent can't do anything about it. Legally. That's why custody orders should be put in place once someone files for divorce or they need to file for divorce immediately especially if in...

No she hasn't violated your parental rights. You're still married - it's 50/50 custody. She can take those kids anywhere and not tell you. Just like you could take the kids and the cops couldn't do anything about it. Before I filed for divorce, I had the police come with me to get my daughter...

If you haven't established your paternity, you have no rights. If you want any rights, you have to go establish your paternity via your state's laws. Then they will figure out the child support. Until you do that, you're legally no one to that child and the mother has all rights and determines...

Oh please. Kids learn far worse via their friends and social media.

He's not her ex legally...and you're not involved. She can get a lawyer. Do a Google search. Find ones near her that do free consultations. I would say drop this baggage quick but it's your life.

Block him and your problem goes away.

Stop talking to him!!!!! Block him on every bit of social media, your phone, everything. Why have you been talking to him still? You are the one who endangered your children by continuing to talk to that person. You need to block him on everything. Does he live in the area? If so, go file for a...

How "young" of an adult are you? If you're legally the age of majority, you aren't "stuck" or "placed" in the middle of the divorce. You can choose to have nothing to do with the divorce. My parents divorced when I was 18 or 19. I had one younger brother still at home (16) and she took the...

Change your phone number if you have to or any numbers the kids have. Turn off their social media if you have to even. Or have them use nicknames and don't use their profile photos for accounts and lock those accounts down. He can't do anything legally so best to ignore him.

There are different ranges of pedophiles. Some are attracted to prepubescent children. Some teens 14-16 and some 17-19. Although legally 18 or older is an adult. Even if they do find an adult partner to have a relationship with - the attraction to children is much stronger. Hence why if I ever...

Get a lawyer. Or at least find one who does free consultations. Also stop breaking the law.

Stop letting your children near this legal stranger. You don't have to let anyone see your kids who you don't want to see them. The biological relatives have no rights to see those kids at all. If he did hire a lawyer, that lawyer is just taking him for whatever he's worth. This is what I...

You have to be trolling. There is no way you can be serious about your comments. Of course she is cold - you are a PEDOPHILE. You ripped her life apart lying to her about your "urges" and that you're attracted to children. Of course threads "typically slide" this way - no one likes a...

What is wrong with you? You are a pedophile - that's why she doesn't want you around the kid. If she does let you around the kid - she's even worse than you. If I EVER found out someone I was with had lied to me about being a pedophile, the cops better get to that guy first. I hope you never...

You're attracted to children? What the hell?

Do you have legal custody or it's something the mom agreed to? You definitely need a lawyer for adoption - that is not a DIY task. Some do free consultations so I would start there when searching. Usually a free 30 minutes.

You were given info - but if you want LEGAL advice you have to go to a lawyer and pay for it. Or get a free consultation.

But you said you "watch" them. When I was a stepparent I sure didn't "watch" my stepkids. I don't watch our daughter either. I parent. Now stepparenting is a slippery slope that's true.

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