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She can have whomever she wants watch the kids on her parenting time. But you all don't have to take the kids on her time. That's on your husband he can always refuse to take them. Your husband can try for sole custody and her get a visitation plan but he needs to talk to a lawyer (and legally...

If it's legit and she tells the social worker, pretty sure the social worker is mandated to report.

If she tells anyone at school in the administration they are obligated to report it. I'm pretty sure all school officials (like teachers, principals, social workers, counselors) are mandated reporters. No one can know what a police investigation into this would look like. You're outside the US...

If the entire case is closed and there is no order, then he can make a call but that might not result in anything. I honestly would just not worry about it because all you do is let him control you when you do. You know what's really going on so why worry? Like if my ex called the cops on me or...

If there is still a court order that you are to have no contact with someone, then you follow it. But usually those things don't last two years unless you want it to. What happened when the case was closed? Did the no contact order get dropped? If so, then not much your child's father can do...

I just read through all of it....

Then go file a police report. But calling the police in California won't do much. Good grief you've been given information on options.

Block them? That's how you stop online harassment. If your brother is in California and only threatening you online, BLOCK HIM and then the harassment stops. Change your number if he calls your number. Then it all stops.

If there's a criminal case you need to stop talking about it on public forums. Anyone involved in the case could easily tie your comments back to you. Yes there can be legal recourse for unproven statements if the accused wanted to file a suit for slander, libel or defamation if the comments...

The prosecutor needs proof beyond a reasonable doubt. If there's any reasonable doubt a prosecutor won't go forward with a charge. I fell into that - my ex the first time he beat me up I waited one day to call the police. I went in later that week and talked to a female officer. She promised me...

You know most people in this forum aren't lawyers right? Did you read the disclaimer at the bottom? I am going to say no you didn't. Oh where did you get your medical degree in psychology to analyze her parents?

Dude you're not getting ahold of her and not getting any money from her. Just let it go. "Most likely" done being with her? Lol she's going to be done with you once she sobers up. Pay it off and then take her to court to try to get that money back or just write it off as a lesson learned. I had...

Her family and rehab are jeopardizing her ground? Are you for real? Sounds like rehab is the best place for her - and you sound toxic as hell. She's better off hopefully forgetting about you. If you want money she owes you, better try small claims. Her parents seem to care enough to put her in...

Was or is still pregnant? You really can't do much about her fetus nor once it's born unless she chooses to give you custody - but where is the sperm donor who impregnated her? He gets a say too in the eventual child's life if he establishes his parental rights. Why did you pay a lawyer for...

No - and you're a stepmother so you have zero rights either way. But you do not have rights to HER child. Only she and whoever the sperm donor is once he establishes his parental rights.

My bad. I didn't realize it.

He signed an AOP though - so isn't he legally the father? If it's been more than 60 days he's gonna need a lawyer to get any rights removed right? It's been six months so he's gotta do some serious work with a lawyer to get his rights relinquished. I didn't see the state but in most if an AOP is...

Actually he has zero parental rights at this moment because he never established them. If he didn't sign an AOP and he's not on the birth certificate - legally he's no one to that kid.

Who did I advocate that to? No one. I simply said that it's extremely easy for a woman who has no one listed as a father on a birth certificate to say she doesn't know who the father is or even could be. Legally people are supposed to do a lot of things yet everyone breaks some crime every...

Legally he's the father so he has the right to contest adoption. If he doesn't want to relinquish his parental rights he doesn't have to. My ex SIL's baby daddy was convicted of sexual assault and still has his rights to all four of their kids. I'm actually glad he's not relinquishing his...