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Only issue is there aren't a lot of shelters for male victims of domestic violence in the US. OP - this is a link that has some resources: A Men's Project – AMP » Illinois This place provides referrals for men: Domestic Violence

Here's what you do: You don't tell this toxic person when and how you are leaving. You set up a plan and have a trusted person help if you can. When that toxic person isn't around, you gather up your kids and essential items and you take YOUR car and get the hell out of there.

Why didn't you just wait 10 days?

No that person was just telling you facts.

Doing meth isn't "dealing" with anything in life. My ex husband is a meth addict. He would constantly take off to do meth when our daughter was in the hospital all the time because he "couldn't handle her like that." It's a bs excuse to do drugs. Sorry. At least you're sober now. Lessons learned...

They can put on a protection order against you to protect her until she's an adult. No she legally can't move in without their permission. How long until she's 18?

Spare time? I haven't been on since yesterday morning. I think you're the one trolling now. Also learn how to respond to people and stop replying to your own posts. It makes you look stupid. I think your oldest is better off with his mother. I wouldn't want to see the parent who willingly...

Only you can make a choice in lawyers. I hope you take the resources you're using seriously. Next time you might kill someone.

I never claimed to know everything. I gave you the actual definition of criminal. I also responded based on YOUR information you gave. As did others. Perhaps you should reevaluate how you got to this point with your oldest child. It was your fault. Yours alone. YOU stated that you were ready to...

Your husband is the legal father - the biological father can try to establish rights if he wanted to yes. You can't remove his rights after establishing them. That's not how it works.

No I think that poster is speaking facts. You were going to allow someone else to adopt your child - willingly. You didn't follow up with it. You made mistakes. It's your fault - not hers. But play the victim. Maybe just focus on your new family.

Definition of criminal: "a person who has committed a crime."

I almost could have gone to Charlottesville...I went to Ft Riley instead to be closer to home...so stupid.

Looks mean nothing in establishing paternity. Some kids look like mom, some like dad some like neither. That's why they do DNA tests.

If you were found guilty of assault and put on probation...you're a criminal.

If you had court ordered visitation and she denied you it - YOU were supposed to file contempt on her in court. YOU. No one else. The court can't do anything if they don't know someone is violating the court order. Child support and visitation are separate things usually.

That is not how relinquishing parental rights works. You can't just give them up. Was a stepparent going to adopt the child? It seems that never happened - so your rights were never relinquished. So you've been the legal father for the last 10 years. Oh give me a break on the "The mother of a...

You need a lawyer. Yesterday.

I'm not a lawyer -read the disclaimer on this page. Most people on here aren't lawyers. I'm not an officer either. Ft Leonardwood trains MPs - not lawyers. JAG officers appear to go to Virginia after OBC. (Must be nice). MPs enforce law - they don't prosecute law.

Oh some of them do say those victim blaming things in CID, civilian police and in court. Yes. I am very fully aware of the victim blaming that goes on. I was a BN and BDE SARC for 2 1/2 years. I saw quite a lot of that from civilian police. The first case I had I took the soldier to the civilian...