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    Manipulated into raising someones child alone

    Nope. Nothing you can do. That's life. Sometimes it sucks and kids suffer. However regardless of DNA YOU are that child's father. YOU raised that child. YOU are all she knows. So you better not go around saying to her "I'm not your dad" because you are her dad. If she wants to try to get info...
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    Ex's new girlfriend threatens me with physical violence, can I keep my kids from her?

    Until you modify the parenting plan you have to abide by it. You don't get a choice. Your kids probably see more "inappropriate" behavior at school and online than they would at their dad's. If he didn't tell you he was coming to get them then that's not your fault. That day. But if he asks...
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    Abortion laws regaurding father unwillingness to financially support mother

    He doesn't have to help you pay for an abortion. Abortion is YOUR choice. He only has responsibility if you give birth and keep that child. Then once his paternity was established he would be on the hook for child support. If you want an abortion get the money yourself. You and he sound like...
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    19 years and no child support, too late?

    If there is a child support order, any money would go to your mother. Not you. You cannot sue him for child support but your mom can take him to court for contempt. You better find another way to pay for college. Your mother nor you is ever going to see a dime of that money.
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    Ex's new girlfriend threatens me with physical violence, can I keep my kids from her?

    Did you call the police and file a report? What's the visitation schedule in the court order say? If you are violating the court order for visitation yes he can take you to court for contempt. Perhaps file a modification to the visitation.
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    Looking to move with Navy husband

    Why did you put "dad" in quotes? Does he make it to his visitation times? Is he active in your child's life? Pays child support? If so why would you call him "dad?" Anyway - YES your ex has a say in if the child moves. The judge is going to look at what's in the best interest of your CHILD not...
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    Strange Gaurdianship situation! Need help!

    If you adopted your husband's children then that child of his ex wife is legally not their brother. Legally he is a stranger as your husband's children are legally your children. You need a lawyer.
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    Father wants to sign his rights over, I’m for it but how do we go about getting it done

    You can't waive child support in Virginia. Other states you can. Not yours. He isn't going to get his rights relinquished involuntarily or voluntarily so he's going to pay child support. If you don't need it put it an account for your kid until she's 18 and then give the kid the money. Some NCP...
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    Father wants to sign his rights over, I’m for it but how do we go about getting it done

    It doesn't matter if you want it or not. The court isn't going to let him relinquish his rights if there's not a stepparent to adopt. The courts are reluctant to do that because many want to avoid child support. The state doesn't want to take care of anyone's kids. So yeah - he better man up.
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    My violation of probation

    Hopefully they took your child from your care until you get your life together.
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    Aunt CPS rights

    You better get a lawyer. That's the only person who can help you.
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    How can we stop a mother from witholding a child by manipulating the system

    Why are you in your son's business? Legally you have nothing to do with this and no say in it. If he has lawyer(s) and he isn't satisfied with the lawyer(s) he can find new one(s). Verbal agreements don't mean anything. She doesn't have to sign anything she doesn't want to sign. Just...
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    Independent adoption

    No you can't just sign a paper with a lawyer. Did you find the actual adoption law in Ohio: Lawriter - ORC
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    Need help

    Why do people always assume that someone who disagrees with them doesn't have kids?
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    Need help

    Rape victims don't lie about being raped but they can lie about the person who raped them because sometimes they want to protect their rapist depending on who it might be.
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    Child custody and visitation/child support

    All that was wrong. You do not write the judge a letter to reschedule a hearing. You know what probably happened to that letter? It probably never made it to the judge. He should have called the court clerk to reschedule so it is HIS fault that he ended up with a default decree. Bottom line...
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    Drug screening for child visitation.

    He said they treat it as a disease - not that it is a disease. I doubt you'll get a judge to order UAs for visitation unless your ex has harmed your child while using drugs.
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    PFA

    Yes. If the respondent doesn't show up then the order will be granted.
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    Child custody and visitation/child support

    The court filed child support for me before our divorce was final. It just didn't go into effect until a month after the decree was signed. So wait did he not show up to any of the divorce proceedings? Was it a default decree? Sorry but that is HIS fault if he didn't show up. If people don't...
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    Child custody and visitation/child support

    No - there are kids who don't need both parents. There are some kids who are better off not having one of their parents around them. Some kids have shitty parent(s).
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