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Dad needs to file for custody in his state of both kids before mom tries to file in her state even though her state technically should not have jurisdiction. He certainly does not have to send the child to her..I wouldnt because then she could try to file for custody of that one. Do some...

If you are not divorced and have no court orders you should have every right to go get the child. your rights are equal to moms.

Who is the baby placed with now? I agree you being out of state makes it virtually impossible for you to get this child. DFYS is not going to transfer jurisdiction to your area. They will just place the child with a local family or relative. It is very doubtful an attorney is going to take this...

Does Mom know he is a convicted sex offender? Bad judgement on her part. Alot depends on the crime and what is parole/probation rules are. He may not supposed to be living with a child. At any rate you have a right to be concerned and I would be filing for custody and that mom not have any...

Nonsense...nobody forced you to do anything. It really doesnt matter though. You are the legal father and there is probably nothing you can do but talk to an attorney this late in the game. Do not be surprised though if its too late to do anything.

It sounds like he is the residential parent even though neither or you have a court order for custody. He does not have to pay support unless the courts tell him too. If you want child support you are going to have to file for it. I suggest you google the child support guidelines for your...

I agree stop listening to the fathers. The grandparents here have NO rights at all. document everything and see an attorney. Dad keeping the children from you probably will not look good.

If he has access to free child care then that is a good defense to not be ordered to pay it. If mom wants to use her daycare then she should pay, plain and simple. Also she must obey any custody order and on his time he does not have to use mom's daycare. i would stop listening to her and take...

you should have had a DNA test after the birth, not waiting until now. Each state has a time limitation you can dispute paternity. how old is said child? It is possible it is too late for you to do anything. If you knew the child was not yours, then you do not sign the paperwork plain and...

If he is self employed you must prove what he makes after expenses. His employees are an expense so I do not think you can use their income. If a forensic accountant found evidence he should make $85k you can certainly use that but there is no question is he probably hiding income but you will...

Plain and simple...stop listening to her. Did you sign the birth paperwork and are you on the birth cert? In most states that gives you rights therefore you have as many rights as she does until a court says otherwise. Now..she can make it difficult for you to see the child but she cannot...

If he is a danger to the kids I would not want anything from him. You cannot expect child support and for him to not have any rights. He doesnt pay anyways. You are going to have to petition the court to move and if you can prove a financial hardship you have a good chance of getting awarded it...

If you pay child support you should know where the child is? Why havent you filed a visitation request with the courts? A simple people search or a parent locator will be able to find her, or if you have a case with the child support enforcement contact them and see if they can give you her...

If your ex still lives in the state where you divorced, they retain jurisdiction. When you move out of state you have to deal with the inconvenience of the other state retaining jurisdiciton. You do not have many options but to argue that you were improperly served but an attorney in the state...

How tacky of mom to have a live in boyfriend already and she is not even divorced yet. Nice. Nobody is saying the boyfriend is right just document everything. Do not communicate with the boyfriend. Do you have an attorney? What does he think of moms living situation? As far as the text..you...

Are you able to communicate at all with the father? Is Dad has custody then Grandma has no business telling you no. You might want to at least book a consultation with an attorney.

Well does the child want to live with Dad? If Dad can prove it is in the childs best interest I suppose he can ask for it but it does not mean he will get it. However maybe if you make a deal with him on the child support and agree to a lesser amount he will drop it? You have to determine how...

I am also sorry to hear about the death of your children. There are alot of unanswered questions though in your post. What caused the death of the babies? Obviously DSS feels that there are some risks/issues with your life and house. As far as the father getting custody, if you cannot prove...

This really sucks for you honestly and alot of NCP's do this to dodge their child support obligations. If the business is in her name then that is an issue. Have you talked to an attorney at all? His income, at the minimum should be caclulated at minimum wage which should come out to more than...

Did Dad sign the birth paperwork? That established paternity in most states. please encourage Dad to file for joint custody and visitation ASAP. The legal standard for being a parent is pretty low so it will be hard to prove mom is unfut but Dad has just as many rights as mom as soomn as he goes...