confusedgirl90
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I was caught yesterday of stealing $199.99 (I think the person let me easy because it was obvious 200+). I am only 18 and this is the first time I have ever done anything illegal. The police was involved and I have a court date on Wednesday. I am wondering if I should get a public defender since I cant afford a lawyer, but I have evidence against me. I'm not even sure if I can get a public defender in time. What should I say in court? Am I allowed to ask for probation and community service and even pay a fine to have it not on my records?
Right now in my life I am feeling incredibly vulnerable and lonely. My parents are thinking about getting a divorce and putting a lot of pressure on me to choose sides and just things not going right. Also all my friends and people I associate with have a partner- and for the first time in a long time, I am single and always the third wheel to my friends. I guess I stole out of consciousness because I want to look better so I won't be lonely anymore-it was something to distract my mind. Is this something I should tell the judge or would it be used against me?
If I am going alone should I go in and admit that I stole and accept my punishment? There is a very high chance of me going alone and I don't know what to say- what is appropriate. I also don't know what I will receive as a punishment.
Please help...
Right now in my life I am feeling incredibly vulnerable and lonely. My parents are thinking about getting a divorce and putting a lot of pressure on me to choose sides and just things not going right. Also all my friends and people I associate with have a partner- and for the first time in a long time, I am single and always the third wheel to my friends. I guess I stole out of consciousness because I want to look better so I won't be lonely anymore-it was something to distract my mind. Is this something I should tell the judge or would it be used against me?
If I am going alone should I go in and admit that I stole and accept my punishment? There is a very high chance of me going alone and I don't know what to say- what is appropriate. I also don't know what I will receive as a punishment.
Please help...