A bunch of strangers on the internet who know NOTHING about you, your former spouse, your children, who may or may not be lawyers, who IF they are lawyers MIGHT not be licensed in LA are of no value to you where IMPORTANT matters like child support, child custody, and other alleged criminal activities (and/or charges) are at issue and being argued.
The best thing you can do is hire yourself a lawyer LICENSED to practice in LA (proficient in LA family law) to make sure your children and you receive the best outcome.
If you can'r or won't hire a lawyer, get used to having your pockets picked, your feelings abused, your fatherhood demeaned, and many other unpleasantries HEAPED in, around, and all over you!