- Jurisdiction
- North Carolina
im not proud to say, but I've been involved in a very ugly breakup involving cheating. Its terrible, and it shouldn't have gone on the way it did for so long...but it did. We're here.
A year ago, I asked a woman to stop contacting the man I was dating. He deleted her. Blocked her. And ignored her. But she continued to contact. I didn't say anything until after the break up a year later, present. I didn't have very nice things to say of what I thought about her and her disrespect for me. She insisted I was all wrong, they were only friends, and blocked my texts. A few weeks later up to this week, he was trying to reconcile. But I found out she had been sending naked pictures and cyber sexing. And talking marriage! I blew up and contacted her again through two medias, email and Facebook. I wasn't sure if she'd receive either of them. It was one message in response to her blatant disrespect, the same message, I wasn't sure which would go through. Again, a not very nice email, exactly what I think about her and her ways, and some things he had told me about her appearance and that she was only contacted because he was drunk. With explicit language. And yes, name calling.
I said what I had to say. She asked me to stop. I told her I would stop. I didn't once say anything threatening towards her. Say I would cause her any harm. Just my opinion of a cheating woman with explicit language.
I understand he is the root of the problem. Everything has been taken up with him as well. And I understand how juvenile this all is. But this is hurt and emotions...
She is now threatening to slap me with a harassment lawsuit. Like I said, I said what I had to say in response to her continued actions. I didn't send any threats. Nothing was public. Just an explicit opinion from me to her. And I agreed to stop. She is in North Carolina. I'm in another state.
A year ago, I asked a woman to stop contacting the man I was dating. He deleted her. Blocked her. And ignored her. But she continued to contact. I didn't say anything until after the break up a year later, present. I didn't have very nice things to say of what I thought about her and her disrespect for me. She insisted I was all wrong, they were only friends, and blocked my texts. A few weeks later up to this week, he was trying to reconcile. But I found out she had been sending naked pictures and cyber sexing. And talking marriage! I blew up and contacted her again through two medias, email and Facebook. I wasn't sure if she'd receive either of them. It was one message in response to her blatant disrespect, the same message, I wasn't sure which would go through. Again, a not very nice email, exactly what I think about her and her ways, and some things he had told me about her appearance and that she was only contacted because he was drunk. With explicit language. And yes, name calling.
I said what I had to say. She asked me to stop. I told her I would stop. I didn't once say anything threatening towards her. Say I would cause her any harm. Just my opinion of a cheating woman with explicit language.
I understand he is the root of the problem. Everything has been taken up with him as well. And I understand how juvenile this all is. But this is hurt and emotions...
She is now threatening to slap me with a harassment lawsuit. Like I said, I said what I had to say in response to her continued actions. I didn't send any threats. Nothing was public. Just an explicit opinion from me to her. And I agreed to stop. She is in North Carolina. I'm in another state.
