boyfriend arested and he is getting license suspended because of child support.

[tgarcia09]

I live with my boyfriend; he is currently arrested and his baby's mother has him on child-support. His child support automatically was deducted from his employment check. Now, the baby mother is in Texas and she doesn't take care of the baby; her mother is (grandmother of the baby). I have told them that Carlos is arrested and he can't do anything to give the payment. The baby's grandmother came to the jail with the baby and seen him. Now, he is asking me if i can resolve the problem because he can't make any payments. How can I (the girlfriend) make any inquiries to the child support. They should have his record that he is arrested and that is the reason he isn't making payments. The baby's mother has full custody without his knowledge and we can't even get a lawyer because we have to travel to Texas where the baby is at and where they filed the child- support. Oh, we have proof that she left him. She wrote a big letter that said that she left because she can get more help from the government with food stamps, medicare, and etc. What can we do. Its a very hard situation and he wants to be in touch with the baby and also does not want to get his license suspended so he can go to work.

 

[warrenwhite]

As much as I feel for you, the best advice I can give you is to stay out of it. You are putting yourself in a situation that you should not be in or involved with what so ever. You are setting yourself up to get hurt. :no:. Get out of it now!!!!

 

[Proserpina]

I live with my boyfriend; he is currently arrested and his baby's mother has him on child-support. His child support automatically was deducted from his employment check. Now, the baby mother is in Texas and she doesn't take care of the baby; her mother is (grandmother of the baby). I have told them that Carlos is arrested and he can't do anything to give the payment. The baby's grandmother came to the jail with the baby and seen him. Now, he is asking me if i can resolve the problem because he can't make any payments. How can I (the girlfriend) make any inquiries to the child support. They should have his record that he is arrested and that is the reason he isn't making payments. The baby's mother has full custody without his knowledge and we can't even get a lawyer because we have to travel to Texas where the baby is at and where they filed the child- support. Oh, we have proof that she left him. She wrote a big letter that said that she left because she can get more help from the government with food stamps, medicare, and etc. What can we do. Its a very hard situation and he wants to be in touch with the baby and also does not want to get his license suspended so he can go to work.

You can't do a thing except help your boyfriend find an attorney.

This isn't your business.

 

[Duranie]

So how is he in arrears if child support was automatically deducted? You likely cannot do anything. CSE probably will not talk to you or give you any info. When he gets out of jail he needs to petition for visitation of the child. Alot of what you posted is totally irrelevant.

 

[tgarcia09]

So how is he in arrears if child support was automatically deducted? You likely cannot do anything. CSE probably will not talk to you or give you any info. When he gets out of jail he needs to petition for visitation of the child. Alot of what you posted is totally irrelevant.

he is in custody for a different charge; not for the child support. I figure i can't do much. i just told him to resolve it when he gets out.