Shoplifting, Larceny, Robbery, Theft Can I contact boyfriend or his family?

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We were arrested together on separate charges. Both of us have felonies. I have been advised not to contact him but I'm bonded out and he's not. I want to add money to his account and check with his grandmother to see if he's ok and tell him I love him. What could the consequences be if I talk to his gma or send him money. What if he is bonded out and we communicate on things not involving the case? Could this cause me a problem in court?
 
If you were ordered by the court to not contact him then don't.
Chances are it was someone else who told you not to, and what they say doesn't matter.
If you contact him in custody you will be recorded and anything said can be used against both of you.
For your own sake it is best to not contact him, obtain an attorney, and follow the legal advice you are given. You are free to do whatever you like unless a court order says otherwise.
 
It was a lawyer in a consultation. What about giving him money or trying to talk to his gma. Do u think its a bad idea. I just want to see how he is and tell him I love him not talk about the case.

And thank you for the reply.
 
Is your saying, "Hi, I love you, how are you doing?" so important that you would risk the authorities even thinking that you might be discussing the case? Or are you mature enough to keep the gratification of your own feelings until after it can no longer harm him - or you?
 
I was asking if me doing so could harm the case. I'm not an expert on legal matters that's why I'm asking. Thanks for answering a question with another insulting question.
 
And again the question was not should I ignore the lawyers advice to contact him, it was would it be ok to send him money or speak with his grandmother.
 
No. It would not be all right to send him money or to speak with his grandmother. Making any kind of contact AT ALL can lead the authorities to believe that you are discussing the case.

Do not send him anything. Do not talk to him. Do not talk to his grandmother. Do not talk to his aunt or his third cousin once removed or his next door neighbor or his parakeet. Do not talk to anyone at all except your own lawyer.

I hope that this is now clear to you.
 
Lolabird84 said:
It was a lawyer in a consultation. What about giving him money or trying to talk to his gma. Do u think its a bad idea. I just want to see how he is and tell him I love him not talk about the case.

And thank you for the reply.
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Personally, yes, I think it is a terrible idea. You need to completely forget this person exists and get your life straightened out. Having contact with him will do nothing good for you.
 
You best bet is not to have anything to do with him in any way. Re your own case, follow your lawyer's advice.
 
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