Right now I am paying $800 a month for child support of 2 girls.. plus $190 for their insurance which gives a total of $990 almost one thousand!!!!! I make $2200 a month. I have a court coming soon because I am trying to lower it! I am married with someone else and recently had a child with her. Seriously WE CAN NOT LIVE WITH 1200 a month. The worst part is that my ex doesn't even spend the money on my girls (she gets food stamps and some other help) she is not working right now so I don't know if that may be a reason to not get a deduction or to pay even more. Can you give some good advices! What can I do in my coming hearing to lower my child support payment?