Juliette2u
New Member
Hi there,
Approximately 4 1/2 months ago I came with my mother across the border from Canada to the United States for a temporary visit. My mom and I planned to visit with my American boyfriend's family in Oregon for 2 or 3 weeks but shortly after arriving, my mom became ill with the flu and returned home to Canada after a few days. I decided to continue my visit in the States and drove with my boyfriend down to California where his job is. We have been together here ever since.
We desperately want to stay together, but I am under the impression that I am only allowed to stay in the States for a total of six months. Is this true? When I crossed the border, I was not given any documentation nor a return date. I did not have a Canadian passport at that time, but have acquired one since then. We have been a couple for approximately one year now and have been contemplating marriage for some future date. Now we are very concerned that I may have to go back to Canada and are seriously considering getting married sooner if that means we can stay together physically.
My boyfriend has a good job here and has a real possibility of acquiring an even better position within the same company in the near future. Right now we are just able to pay our bills and are also maintaining my place of residence in Canada, which, in total, is more than we can afford. I should also note that two months prior to my coming to the States, my boyfriend stayed with me in Canada for about a year, during which time he made periodic trips back to the States. We know that we want to stay together and since his capacity for earning a living is greater than mine, we would much prefer to live here as a couple in California.
This seems like a very confusing and overwhelming situation to be in. Therefore, we would be exceptionally grateful to receive any advice on how it may be possible for us to stay together in California. We are both decent people in love and are frustrated by the limitations that are facing us simply because we are from different countries. Thank you very much for any time and energy you may devote to helping us with our dilemma!
Juliette
Approximately 4 1/2 months ago I came with my mother across the border from Canada to the United States for a temporary visit. My mom and I planned to visit with my American boyfriend's family in Oregon for 2 or 3 weeks but shortly after arriving, my mom became ill with the flu and returned home to Canada after a few days. I decided to continue my visit in the States and drove with my boyfriend down to California where his job is. We have been together here ever since.
We desperately want to stay together, but I am under the impression that I am only allowed to stay in the States for a total of six months. Is this true? When I crossed the border, I was not given any documentation nor a return date. I did not have a Canadian passport at that time, but have acquired one since then. We have been a couple for approximately one year now and have been contemplating marriage for some future date. Now we are very concerned that I may have to go back to Canada and are seriously considering getting married sooner if that means we can stay together physically.
My boyfriend has a good job here and has a real possibility of acquiring an even better position within the same company in the near future. Right now we are just able to pay our bills and are also maintaining my place of residence in Canada, which, in total, is more than we can afford. I should also note that two months prior to my coming to the States, my boyfriend stayed with me in Canada for about a year, during which time he made periodic trips back to the States. We know that we want to stay together and since his capacity for earning a living is greater than mine, we would much prefer to live here as a couple in California.
This seems like a very confusing and overwhelming situation to be in. Therefore, we would be exceptionally grateful to receive any advice on how it may be possible for us to stay together in California. We are both decent people in love and are frustrated by the limitations that are facing us simply because we are from different countries. Thank you very much for any time and energy you may devote to helping us with our dilemma!
Juliette