I made a horriable mistake,I stole an outfit from a major department store.I actually stole the outfit to wear to a job interview,I've been out of work for months.Anyhow I am 27 years old and I have no record what so ever.The store placed a citizens arrest on me and an officer showed up and read me my rights and asked to take a statement but I chose to remain silent,was that the right thing to do? I was not arrested but the officer did give me a ticket with violations listed as 484(a) and 490.5(a)pc and a court date listed.The amount of the merch. stolen was under $100 but over $50 full retail.I am so confused and terrified,what should I do?My court date isn't for 2 months but I want to be pro active and start getting things done before then even though the officer told me not to worry about it until I go to my court hearing.To make matters worse my 10 year old daughter was with me but had no idea of what I was doing but the LP guy kept trying to get me to say she was involved but she wasn't.The lp people told me I would be getting a civil demand letter in the mail that I have to pay.I read a lawyers advice on another site and he said to not pay the rediculous amount it is going to be and to just send a $50 money order with "payment accepted as satisfaction of all claims" written on it. Is that good advice?What other fees/fines should I be expecting?Is there anyway I could avoid this going on my record?Any help is appreciated,thanks