Child custody

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Hello,

I've been in court with my ex for 2 years now. Let me start. Feb 2015, she up and moved to California from Missouri, without my knowledge. She cut off all communication. I tracked her down by my daughter's school transcript. Plus California child support contacted me, but would not give her address to get served. I cought a break, when the babysitter gave the address she was staying at. Two attempted service. Then I ran a publication in my county. I was awarded full legal and full physical custody. Then she got a lawyer and got my orders put aside. Now she has full legal and physical. My daughter is sharing a room with her 13 year old brother, she's 10. I would like for her to have her own room. Plus my ex lives in a rough neighborhood. What can I do to prove I more fit and have better living situation. She's lying about not living at where I served her papers.
 
Having a private bedroom is an insignificant detail.
If you already have an attorney working on this then your questions will best be answered there.
You have a weird situation going on and details are missing as to why custody has completely flip flipped twice even with the ex leaving the state with the kids before settling custody and visitation issues.
 
Jmc81 said:
Hello,

I've been in court with my ex for 2 years now. Let me start. Feb 2015, she up and moved to California from Missouri, without my knowledge. She cut off all communication. I tracked her down by my daughter's school transcript. Plus California child support contacted me, but would not give her address to get served. I cought a break, when the babysitter gave the address she was staying at. Two attempted service. Then I ran a publication in my county. I was awarded full legal and full physical custody. Then she got a lawyer and got my orders put aside. Now she has full legal and physical. My daughter is sharing a room with her 13 year old brother, she's 10. I would like for her to have her own room. Plus my ex lives in a rough neighborhood. What can I do to prove I more fit and have better living situation. She's lying about not living at where I served her papers.
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You refer to this person as your EX.
Was she/he/it your lawfully wedded spouse BEFORE the child was born?
Are you the legal father of the child?
If you are, how do you claim to be the legal father?
 
Jmc81 said:
Hello,

I've been in court with my ex for 2 years now. Let me start. Feb 2015, she up and moved to California from Missouri, without my knowledge. She cut off all communication. I tracked her down by my daughter's school transcript. Plus California child support contacted me, but would not give her address to get served. I cought a break, when the babysitter gave the address she was staying at. Two attempted service. Then I ran a publication in my county. I was awarded full legal and full physical custody. Then she got a lawyer and got my orders put aside. Now she has full legal and physical. My daughter is sharing a room with her 13 year old brother, she's 10. I would like for her to have her own room. Plus my ex lives in a rough neighborhood. What can I do to prove I more fit and have better living situation. She's lying about not living at where I served her papers.
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Obviously the court found her fit if they gave her sole custody. So what if your daughter shares a room with her brother - it's not illegal. I am the only girl out of five kids. I shared a room with my brother until I was 10. When my youngest brother was little he would come sleep in my room when it would thunderstorm. I'm six years older than him. So what? So you're more worried about her sharing a room with her brother than anything else? For real? Smh. These rooming situation questions get old.
 
army judge said:
You refer to this person as your EX.
Was she/he/it your lawfully wedded spouse BEFORE the child was born?
Are you the legal father of the child?
If you are, how do you claim to be the legal father?
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He said he had sole custody but that then it got set aside and now she has full custody. So I'm going to go with that he's established paternity if he had sole custody at some point.
 

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