My apologies if I am not posting in right discussion. My husband has full custody of his two young sons and was awarded their home in a divorce about 7 years ago. He refinanced in his name only and had her name removed via a quitclaim deed. We have been married about 5 years and I moved into the home with them at that time. Since stepparents have no real claim to their stepchildren and the law basically defines me as a legal stranger to them, in the event of their father's death they would be automatically given to their mother. I am not on the mortgage nor am I on the deed to the home. We never really thought about what would happen to children and home and all of our property if something were to happen to my husband but we are preparing to redo our wills as a married couple (I have two children from first marriage as well.) If I am not on the home's deed or mortgage - what happens to the home we share now? Can he state in his will that I am to get the house? Is it assumed I will since I am his wife? Or will his ex-wife be able to move it since she will have the children? Thanks