So a situation arose last week on Friday with the company that I am currently contracted out to. I Reside in Georgia, and I work as a Independent Contractor for this I.T. Company.
This might be a little strange to follow to please bare with me as I try to explain it as the best as I can. Last year (2012) I moved down to Georgia were my best friend was living because his company was hiring. I got hired as a independent contractor for X Company. (We will just call the company X for now.) My boyfriend is a Project Manager with X Company. He basically handles everything that is supposed to happen on site (computer installs, fixing computer, ect..ect..) Well as of last week I was informed that X Company was going to start a new policy for the company. This policy is That if you spouse is a PM (Project Manager) then you can not work on the same project as they are currently working on. My boyfriend was told this by his boss. Apparently the reason they are now doing this is because they are having another PM come down here who is engaged to a Tech who is his fiancé. Ironically this Tech is a Female, as I am as well. I asked my boyfriend why are they now just putting this policy in place? He said the reasoning for this was because they want to make sure that no one thinks their is favoritism going on within the company. Now this part I can understand completely, until I asked him "Oh so does this apply towards family members as well?" My boyfriend told me that his boss said "No just towards spouses. Because family is family. And with a spouse you aren't blood related." I thought to myself wow that is really mean of them to say something like that. So granted I was a little upset that I feel like this policy is really only towards females and not males. But this company main motto is "being a family owned business." So I contacted my boyfriends boss via e-mail and I asked him how come he (we will call boss 5) never taken the effort to call me and tell me what was going on? Why did he have to put my boyfriend in the middle of this. His reply back to my email was simply "Because you are a contractor and I don't have to talk to you. Contact HR." So obviously I was a little upset. Monday morning rolls by....Still no one from Corporate has contacted me. I made a post this morning on facebook that said the following "So after being a contractor for X Company for about 1 1/2 years I will be leaving the company by the summertime. IT was brought to my attention that I would not be able to work on site or on the same project with my spouse who is a Project Manager. Because the company is afraid that it might show favoritism. But here is were it gets interesting. I will be working in the warehouse were all the training that I have received will be put to terrible use, and I can only work on someone elses project. But this rule ONLY applies to spouses and not family members. Doesn't that see sexist and biased at the same time? This is supposed to be a "family company" seems like that is not so true anymore."
Now today is Tuesday.....Someone from recruiting contacted me, and asked me about my post that I made on facebook. I told him yes I made that post because I was upset. They told me that I needed to remove that post from my facebook account because it is slander, and if I don't do so they will sue me. This recruiter also told me that the company contacted their lawyers and the message that I left onmy facebook account is slander and if I want to continue to work for the company that I have to remove it. So I did so....
Now my question is, Is that really slander? I don't see how it is consider slander. I didn't mention any ones names what so ever. I even took the time to look up the definition of "slander" and it said someone who says (oral or spoken) something bad about a person or persons.
Can someone please shed some light on this for me? lol
This might be a little strange to follow to please bare with me as I try to explain it as the best as I can. Last year (2012) I moved down to Georgia were my best friend was living because his company was hiring. I got hired as a independent contractor for X Company. (We will just call the company X for now.) My boyfriend is a Project Manager with X Company. He basically handles everything that is supposed to happen on site (computer installs, fixing computer, ect..ect..) Well as of last week I was informed that X Company was going to start a new policy for the company. This policy is That if you spouse is a PM (Project Manager) then you can not work on the same project as they are currently working on. My boyfriend was told this by his boss. Apparently the reason they are now doing this is because they are having another PM come down here who is engaged to a Tech who is his fiancé. Ironically this Tech is a Female, as I am as well. I asked my boyfriend why are they now just putting this policy in place? He said the reasoning for this was because they want to make sure that no one thinks their is favoritism going on within the company. Now this part I can understand completely, until I asked him "Oh so does this apply towards family members as well?" My boyfriend told me that his boss said "No just towards spouses. Because family is family. And with a spouse you aren't blood related." I thought to myself wow that is really mean of them to say something like that. So granted I was a little upset that I feel like this policy is really only towards females and not males. But this company main motto is "being a family owned business." So I contacted my boyfriends boss via e-mail and I asked him how come he (we will call boss 5) never taken the effort to call me and tell me what was going on? Why did he have to put my boyfriend in the middle of this. His reply back to my email was simply "Because you are a contractor and I don't have to talk to you. Contact HR." So obviously I was a little upset. Monday morning rolls by....Still no one from Corporate has contacted me. I made a post this morning on facebook that said the following "So after being a contractor for X Company for about 1 1/2 years I will be leaving the company by the summertime. IT was brought to my attention that I would not be able to work on site or on the same project with my spouse who is a Project Manager. Because the company is afraid that it might show favoritism. But here is were it gets interesting. I will be working in the warehouse were all the training that I have received will be put to terrible use, and I can only work on someone elses project. But this rule ONLY applies to spouses and not family members. Doesn't that see sexist and biased at the same time? This is supposed to be a "family company" seems like that is not so true anymore."
Now today is Tuesday.....Someone from recruiting contacted me, and asked me about my post that I made on facebook. I told him yes I made that post because I was upset. They told me that I needed to remove that post from my facebook account because it is slander, and if I don't do so they will sue me. This recruiter also told me that the company contacted their lawyers and the message that I left onmy facebook account is slander and if I want to continue to work for the company that I have to remove it. So I did so....
Now my question is, Is that really slander? I don't see how it is consider slander. I didn't mention any ones names what so ever. I even took the time to look up the definition of "slander" and it said someone who says (oral or spoken) something bad about a person or persons.
Can someone please shed some light on this for me? lol