Constant harassment to leave

[Elionel]

I live with my dad, I'm currently not studying and I'm 21 years old. He keeps calling the cops and I recently had a court date because he wanted me to clean up after my dog and that i don't have visitors after 12 but instead of telling that to me me he took me to court but the judge said that there was nothing she could do and after that he called the cops because i wouldn't move my car so he could put his in. I need to know what cam i do in this situation, because I know he's gonna keep doing this.

 

[Proserpina]

You're 21 - if you don't like living with your father, the easiest option would be to simply move and get your own place.

 

[Betty3]

If you're not studying, do you have a job? Can you move out - that would probably be your best option.

 

[mightymoose]

Another option is to respect your parents rules at their home and be thankful they allow you to stay there.

 

[cbg]

You're a legal adult - he has no legal obligation to allow you to live there. Make up your mind to it; if he wants you out unless you obey certain rules, sooner or later you will be out. He may have to go through a formal eviction process depending on your state law, but if he does that you will have no choice in the matter - you will have a drop dead date by which you MUST move out.

So clean up your own and your dog's messes, don't have visitors after 12, move your car so he can put his in, or alternately, move into your own place, start paying your own bills, and do anything you like.

 

[Betty3]

The bottom line is follow the rules & quit complaining or move out.

 

[army judge]

Yeah, dude, I'm digging it. My dad always tells me what to do. He yells at me, and once he took my iPad and hidden it, just because I mistakenly kept downloading monkey, goat, pig, and crow porn. Come on, what's up with that? Besides, I stopped smoking pot in my bedroom, I only shoot "black tar" now, and a courteous enough to smoke my hash, weed, meth,and crack in the garage. Besides, we live about 20 miles from the nearest town, the horses and cattle don't mind. Sheesh, you'd think it was his house, he's gonna be dead one day and I get everything in mom's and his will.

So, legally, it's my hose two, right?

It's hard to grow up these days, costs too much. Besides if i get my place, ain't got much left for my pleasures. Kids need fun. I work and help on the ranch, right? Parents just try to spoil us teenagers fun.

He don't want my 15 year old boyfriend coming around, neither. He hates us gays, not cool, right?

Jason and I ain't has no sex, just hang out and pay Xbox, PlayStation, u know.

I'm only 24, and plan to get my own place, but he's 59, so why bother? Old dude ain't gonna be around anyway, bad heart, obese, and he drinks and smokes cigarettes in my house. Is that cool? I hate cigarette smoke, it causes cancers. That's why I smoke weed, crack, hash, and meth; duh - no cancers!


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