Couple questions married 3 days now :)

[dz7g36]

Everyone has been helpful and will be meeting a lawyer in a few days. question.

i have owned a home 3 years prior to getting married to my wife of 3 days. She still is in her rental and is packing to move in with me. I think I sould tell her to stay in her house and break the news to her . we have done nothing as of yet its only been 3 days so no account merges living together name changes etc have taken place. if i file for divorce will i still keep my pre marital home that i bought for my 5yr old and my self?

i think also my new wife was getting spousal support that was going to end in two years. since we got married i think it will stop as well. if i get it annuled she possibly could keep her spousal support. I dotn hate her but she doesnt accept my son it was like a complete change after we married. seems cold to him and i cannot sacrifice my sons safety or love regardless of how i feel.

 

[army judge]

You have nothing to worry about, regarding your home.

The marriage wasn't consummated.

I suggest you wait and discuss all of your concerns with your attorney.

Whatever you do, don't permit her to enter your home.

I suggest you also cease all contact and communications with her.

I doubt that she'll lose her spousal support.

The marriage will soon become a legal "never was"!

 

[dz7g36]

Army judge thank you for your reply.. i will hang in there and see what lawyer says it is confusing and emotional all in one but my son is the primary concern and i need to do what is right for us as a father and son.. I hope i make the right decision.

 

[army judge]

Army judge thank you for your reply.. i will hang in there and see what lawyer says it is confusing and emotional all in one but my son is the primary concern and i need to do what is right for us as a father and son.. I hope i make the right decision.

The decision we choose at that moment is the right decision.

I have no reason to quibble with your judgment in this case.

You've chosen to love and protect your son over the love of a woman.

No one, but an idiot, would quibble with that choice, sir.

God bless.


I almost forgot.

You home would be safe in a community property state, which Michigan isn't.

But, if it would be safe in texas or California, it is safe in Michigan.

Why?

You acquired your home BEFORE the marriage.