Custody

[Foxd]

Jurisdiction

Oklahoma

My brother just won custody of his 4yr.old daughter a few months ago. Her mother gets visitation, but is still unstable. Now my brothers alcoholism is not under control. We all live in Texas except for her mother. The case is in Oklahoma. How can I as her aunt get custody? Or what are my odds of getting her?

 

[army judge]

How can I as her aunt get custody?

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You can hire yourself a lawyer and try to make the case that you are a better parent for the child, while your brother and the child's mother deal with their demons.

It would help you if your brother supported your attempt to become the EMERGENCY/TEMPORARY MANAGING CONSERVATOR (which is what we call a guardian in Texas).
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What are my odds of getting her?

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It will be an uphill battle, which makes your initial chances lower than 1 in 10!!!
You could also contact CPS and ask them if they will support you in your efforts to become the EMERGENCY/TEMPORARY MANAGING CONSERVATOR

 

[mightymoose]

I'd think your best option is to notify social services in Oklahoma, but you'll have to show that his drinking is a danger to the child. You have a legitimate concern but would probably have a hard time making a strong enough car to get anywhere. Social services could investigate whatever you report and follow up however they deem necessary.