De Facto Custodian of grandchild.

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wizbabe

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I have taken the parents of my grandchild who is 8 going on 9 to court for guardianship. The reason being the mother is unstable and unwilling to take responsibility for your son. He has had bite marks on his for over a year found out from landlord where she got evicted she had bed bugs and there was dog feces all in the carpet where the kids had to walk. My grandson has stomach issues and had a hard time having bowel movement and has accidents and the mother scolds him and is afraid to tell her when it happens and he sits in his dirty underwear. I have taken him to every doctors appointment. I have participated in school activities when the parents are unwilling. I have attended all practices and events my grandson is involved in without the parents involvement.
 
One of those parents is your son or daughter.
The issues you cite are disturbing, but usually they aren't enough (by themselves) to lose custody and parental rights over.
At any rate, I suggest you discuss this with your attorney.
It's best to hold your cards close to the vest.
 
What is the mother is unfit to provide a stable home and medical treatment? My son is the father. He has the mother in contempt of court for moving the child out of state without permission of court or him. What are the grounds to lose custody and parental rights? My son is abusing drugs. The mom had her convicted brother of heroin living with her and my grandson has told me he went to buy drugs with him. The mother also has domestic violence against her. She argues and talks in front of my grandson to his father and other people. Arguing and fighting.
 
What is the mother is unfit to provide a stable home and medical treatment? My son is the father. He has the mother in contempt of court for moving the child out of state without permission of court or him. What are the grounds to lose custody and parental rights? My son is abusing drugs. The mom had her convicted brother of heroin living with her and my grandson has told me he went to buy drugs with him. The mother also has domestic violence against her. She argues and talks in front of my grandson to his father and other people. Arguing and fighting.

I think all of that is bad. You think it's bad. These days, that's nothing. The standard for breeding is non-existent.
The standard for parenting is very low.
Hire a lawyer. Or, speak to one or two. The initial consultation is usually free.
 
And what are child services saying about it all?

Seriously - this NEEDS to be answered.

There is a HUGE reason why I'm asking the question.
 
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