mylittlemansdad
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my son is 3 I was in his life during the first 2 months of his life then only seen him 2 times when he was 7/8 months old (she wouldnt let me see him) then she told me he was NOT mine and to stay out of their life after 2/3 months I asked the court for a DNA test I asked June 2010 BUT the court lost the request and it was found Dec 2010 and then it took till Oct 2011 to get the results because the mother wouldnt take him till the court ordered her to FINALLY I got visitation in Oct 2011 and of course we had to call the police 3 times to get him or take her cigarettes and soda so she would let us have him and take him back with diapers cause even though we were paying almost 500 a month child support she couldnt afford them In April 2012 she met a guy and we finally got along and split custody 50/50 2 weeks here - 2 weeks there in Nov 2012 she moved in with another man and he would come to us bruised, cut and scared to death of stuff in Feb 2013 my wife picked up my son from an ER the mother had went to jail and left him with the aunt and while with her he fell and busted his head open (not the first time the aunt hurt him) So in March 2013 I filed an ex-parte and TRO .. due to neglect, physical, mental and sexual abuse by the mother, grandmother, aunt and half-sister and the mother using drugs, the judge gave me temp legal and physical custody I have had him 7 months we went to court and the judge asked the mother if she did drugs or if there had been any abuse history and she said NO but gave the mother a drug test form which she ignored then sent us to mediation we went to the first one and she was ordered to take the drug test and she got supervised visitation 4 hours every other weekend the supervisor allowed her to break the rules threated kidnapping him, took him to the bathroom alone, let him watch a video message from one of the abusers, came to one visit high and so on so I stopped the visits and told her to get a professional supervising center we were suppose to go to mediation again I showed up she didn't I talked to the mediator and told her that I want the drug tested order BY the judge and to get us into the visitation center she called the mother and the judge and we did a 3 way call (mediator and me)(mother) and (Judge) The judge ordered her to take a nail test, 6 monthly uas and 6 random uas of course she never took any of them and she had not seen my son in 5 months she called the mediator a little over a month ago and she told her that she needed to take the drug test and she would set us up with the visitation center well as you can guess she didnt instead she called the judge saying that the mediator and I forced her into the judge signing the order which is funny since the judge heard her say yes she agreed to take them. She also told the mediator she moved again (5th time in less than 2 years) this time in WITH the supervisor Then about 2 weeks ago she texted and asked if she could see him and I said NO take me to court My new wife is helping with all the paperwork and said she wanted to go this week to court and ask for a temporary hearing and have the judge actually sign something instead of just using the ex-parte temp. we have the papers filled out but one area
My Question: What do we put to deny visitation rights on the visitation part ?? we also put the mother as a NON-Possessory but not sure its going to fly with the judge
What I want is to terminate her rights all together but not sure how to do that .. My wife and I filed a Termination/Adoption and she answered saying NO, my wife went to court to get a home study ordered and the Judge said No , he wanted one on both homes and file for it under the custody BUT just a little over a week after we sent her the ruling (she didnt show up to court then either) she up and moved again.
Oh and 2 days ago they put a warrant out for her ( her 3rd or 4th one)
There is A LOT more to the story the highlights: she and her family neglected him and sexually,physically and mentally abused him and this is the second time they have done it (sometime in 2010 CPS took him away from her BUT never contacted me ) I am sure they were always abusing him.
she uses drugs
My Question: What do we put to deny visitation rights on the visitation part ?? we also put the mother as a NON-Possessory but not sure its going to fly with the judge
What I want is to terminate her rights all together but not sure how to do that .. My wife and I filed a Termination/Adoption and she answered saying NO, my wife went to court to get a home study ordered and the Judge said No , he wanted one on both homes and file for it under the custody BUT just a little over a week after we sent her the ruling (she didnt show up to court then either) she up and moved again.
Oh and 2 days ago they put a warrant out for her ( her 3rd or 4th one)
There is A LOT more to the story the highlights: she and her family neglected him and sexually,physically and mentally abused him and this is the second time they have done it (sometime in 2010 CPS took him away from her BUT never contacted me ) I am sure they were always abusing him.
she uses drugs
