My husband is in the Military, right now we're stationed in Belgium. We have one child together and I have two from another relationship. We've been married for almost five years, during that time I've followed him around the world and have been a stay-at-home mom due to his work schedule. We've decided that our relationship isn't working but I have a couple of issues.
1. He says that me and the children can't go back to the states until the divorce is final. Can the military really make us stay here-in the same house-until then?
2. He is also telling me that I can't get custody unless I can prove that the child we have together will have his own room. I've tried to find this law that he speaks of but can't seem to find it. I have three boys; 10, 8, and 2; is there anything that says that they can't share a room?
3. He's also trying to tell me that I'll have to agree to shared placement for own son, meaning that every six months I would have to fly back to Belgium to get my son. Can I really be ordered to do that?
l'd just ask the legal office here but they don't deal with civil cases anymore. Any words of wisdom will be greatly appreciated. Thank you.
1. He says that me and the children can't go back to the states until the divorce is final. Can the military really make us stay here-in the same house-until then?
2. He is also telling me that I can't get custody unless I can prove that the child we have together will have his own room. I've tried to find this law that he speaks of but can't seem to find it. I have three boys; 10, 8, and 2; is there anything that says that they can't share a room?
3. He's also trying to tell me that I'll have to agree to shared placement for own son, meaning that every six months I would have to fly back to Belgium to get my son. Can I really be ordered to do that?
l'd just ask the legal office here but they don't deal with civil cases anymore. Any words of wisdom will be greatly appreciated. Thank you.
