Hi everyone.
My wife and I been having alot of problems. We been married for years 3 Children, we have our own business, etc, etc, after my wife was put into Jail for Domestic Violence last year this seems to be worst. I had enough and she had enough. We don't agree on things here at home and also at our Business. She is going to Anger Management classes ordered by the court here in California. But like I just mentioned things are not getting any better. I tried and she tried her best. She says I need some counseling and honestly I don't think even if I change for the better she will not. She has been going to those classes for a few months now she is half way trhu the completion of such classes. She just got more anger in here.
In her eyez im a good for nothing husband/father. I can't and won't argue it anymore. We do live on a Beutifull house 2 new cars and have our own business for years, that so far is a great business!
But honestly I think is time to just call it quits and see what the distiny has to offer. We have been trhu alot in our live as a couple trying to over come and forget the worst days of our lifes (loosing one of our daughters 3 years ago).
I can go on for ever and ever but I just need some advice as what to do at this point. Find a place to stay andstart with the divorce process?
Also since I will start the Divorce process the joint money is use for all these Legal process or?
I am willing to make this as easy as possible for both of us and our kids. But I think we insult each other to much that is not good for our kids to see this anymore. I do believe that they can have a better life than having mom and dad arguing for just dumb stuff, the reason is not for money, or cheating. It's all because I don't do this and that and same for her, that she doesn't do this and that.
I will be getting an Attorney but I just want to know the process when it comes to moving out and if we should keep the business or sale it and all that material stuff.
Thanks in advance for your advice.
My wife and I been having alot of problems. We been married for years 3 Children, we have our own business, etc, etc, after my wife was put into Jail for Domestic Violence last year this seems to be worst. I had enough and she had enough. We don't agree on things here at home and also at our Business. She is going to Anger Management classes ordered by the court here in California. But like I just mentioned things are not getting any better. I tried and she tried her best. She says I need some counseling and honestly I don't think even if I change for the better she will not. She has been going to those classes for a few months now she is half way trhu the completion of such classes. She just got more anger in here.
In her eyez im a good for nothing husband/father. I can't and won't argue it anymore. We do live on a Beutifull house 2 new cars and have our own business for years, that so far is a great business!
But honestly I think is time to just call it quits and see what the distiny has to offer. We have been trhu alot in our live as a couple trying to over come and forget the worst days of our lifes (loosing one of our daughters 3 years ago).
I can go on for ever and ever but I just need some advice as what to do at this point. Find a place to stay andstart with the divorce process?
Also since I will start the Divorce process the joint money is use for all these Legal process or?
I am willing to make this as easy as possible for both of us and our kids. But I think we insult each other to much that is not good for our kids to see this anymore. I do believe that they can have a better life than having mom and dad arguing for just dumb stuff, the reason is not for money, or cheating. It's all because I don't do this and that and same for her, that she doesn't do this and that.
I will be getting an Attorney but I just want to know the process when it comes to moving out and if we should keep the business or sale it and all that material stuff.
Thanks in advance for your advice.