my ex- wife and i have joint custody of our 2 children. the court papers state that she is supposed to inform me of any changes or anything that may happen with the children's doctors school or anything else. for example my youngest child went to the emergency room one night and although i am supposed to be notified not only by my ex- wife but by the hospital as well. i didn't know until my child told me herself that she went which was two days later. what can i do to make sure she tells me what she's supposed to? my attorney who did my orgional case is not avaliable to deal with my case anymore he took on too many clients. what can i do?