my husband and our family have been harrassed at different times by his son's mother. she recently got our number and left 2 particularly vile messages. calling us obsceneties, and telling my husband he deserves to die, he needs to die, etc. i was devastated when i turned on my answering machine this morning. my husband is very ill with lung cancer and is undergoing chemo. this is a very sad, stressful, scary time for him. i heard she came into some money and we have no problem with sueing her for distress or damages or whatever. this is totally unacceptable and she needs to be penalized for her cruelty which very much interferes with my husband's progress, especially when she insists on bring the son into it. i'm taping these latest recordings. help! what is our recourse?