Please help- my baby sitter at the time called to tell me that my 1.5 year old had kicked in her fireplace screen, and ripped it. She told me she saw her do it. So i said"oh, you just sat there and let her do it" she then got defensive and said no let me finish i was holding the baby when she did and could not get her in time. I then said that if she wanted me to pay for it i would. She said "yes, b/c i can't afford to have my stuff broken"
So when i dropped her off the next week..the sitter took the check and then said "oh, and i wanted to talk to u about last week. the way you acted was unacceptable when i told you what rachael did. Its not my prob if you are unaware what your daughter is capable of. She hits the other kids, you can ask them. (meanwhile they are are under 2) I asked her for the check back b/c i was going to leave and she said "oh, no your crazy. You owe me two weeks and i will get that money" I then took my daughter b/c i was not going to leave her with this woman. When i am getting ready to go, she says "oh, i am not saying anything wrong here." very calmly i said "listen, when you told me on the phone that u can't afford to have your stuff broken, maybe you should not be watching kids" she then flipped out yelling (doing all of this in front of the kids) saying "listen, i'm 33, your a lot older then me..well..i don't know how old you are but u look.." then she trailed off..I am 23, and do not look any older. She kept going personally attacking me. Saying "oh, when your boyfriend did not tell you that u needed food last week, i don't tell you that u shouldnt be with him"
I have no idea where this is comig from. She was very rude and unprofessional. I stopped payment on the check. She called yelling again, w/ personal attacks.
I called the child developmnet office in PA and they said she should not be watching more then 3 children. The sitter told me that they told her she can go ahead and watch more then that.She had 5 toddlers and 1 newborn, not counting my daughter.
Is it fair that she is taking me to court????please help..
So when i dropped her off the next week..the sitter took the check and then said "oh, and i wanted to talk to u about last week. the way you acted was unacceptable when i told you what rachael did. Its not my prob if you are unaware what your daughter is capable of. She hits the other kids, you can ask them. (meanwhile they are are under 2) I asked her for the check back b/c i was going to leave and she said "oh, no your crazy. You owe me two weeks and i will get that money" I then took my daughter b/c i was not going to leave her with this woman. When i am getting ready to go, she says "oh, i am not saying anything wrong here." very calmly i said "listen, when you told me on the phone that u can't afford to have your stuff broken, maybe you should not be watching kids" she then flipped out yelling (doing all of this in front of the kids) saying "listen, i'm 33, your a lot older then me..well..i don't know how old you are but u look.." then she trailed off..I am 23, and do not look any older. She kept going personally attacking me. Saying "oh, when your boyfriend did not tell you that u needed food last week, i don't tell you that u shouldnt be with him"
I have no idea where this is comig from. She was very rude and unprofessional. I stopped payment on the check. She called yelling again, w/ personal attacks.
I called the child developmnet office in PA and they said she should not be watching more then 3 children. The sitter told me that they told her she can go ahead and watch more then that.She had 5 toddlers and 1 newborn, not counting my daughter.
Is it fair that she is taking me to court????please help..