ex boyfriend troubles

[backwoodsprincess]

Could i get my ex boyfriend who is also an ex military personnel in trouble for threatening to post a very private video i didn't give him permission to record ?

if my ex is threatening to post a private video i didn't give him permission to record nor was i aware he recorded it until recently , couldno get him in trouble for doing so without him posting it ? also he is an ex military personnel .

 

[Highwayman]

Ask your question once - asking the same thing multiple times is just plain annoying.

Why is his status as former military relevant?

Define "private video". What state is involved here?

 

[backwoodsprincess97]

private as in we were doing stuff and he recorded us . and he's former because he got out , like unenlisted

 

[army judge]

private as in we were doing stuff and he recorded us . and he's former because he got out , like unenlisted

If you're an adult, don't expect the law to do very much.
Once the bell has been rung, you can't unring the sound people heard.

However, NC does purport to have that new "revenge porn" law, and this woman is singing the blues over getting charged:
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Apex woman is the first charged under North Carolina's new "revenge porn" law
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Maybe you can report it to the police, see what they cops or the sheriff has to say.

His former military status has no bearing on his perverted nature, sorry.

Your state's law focuses on whether he "demeaned or humiliated" you, read what a NC lawyer has to say about this:
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New Revenge Porn Crime
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[mightymoose]

Could i get my ex boyfriend who is also an ex military personnel in trouble for threatening to post a very private video i didn't give him permission to record ?

if my ex is threatening to post a private video i didn't give him permission to record nor was i aware he recorded it until recently , couldno get him in trouble for doing so without him posting it ? also he is an ex military personnel .

No, not likely. If he actually does something with the video and you actually have some sort of damages as a result, then maybe, but still not likely.

 

[leslie82]

Could i get my ex boyfriend who is also an ex military personnel in trouble for threatening to post a very private video i didn't give him permission to record ?

if my ex is threatening to post a private video i didn't give him permission to record nor was i aware he recorded it until recently , couldno get him in trouble for doing so without him posting it ? also he is an ex military personnel .

Who cares if he's former military? If he was still in the military you could get him in trouble with his command possibly but he's not. So that's a moot point.

If he recorded you without your permission file a report if he uploads it. He hasn't done anything yet so there isn't anything to report in reality.

Just ignore him. Block him on everything. If he posts it oh well. He's in it too. Maybe it will embarrass him if he was a horrible lover or something. He might just be bluffing. Have you even seen this video to know it exists? What does he want from you that he's threatening to upload it?

I would just ignore the jerk. Block him on all social media and call his bluff. Go ahead and publish it and then I would say if you do I'll file a report because you filmed me without my permission. That might scare him. Don't let him control you.