Ex Wife Harrasment PLEASE HELP!!!

[Guest]

I am not sure if this the right place to post...because my situation is a complicated one at best...i have a ex wife of over 15 years whom now lives 2000 miles away from me in texas because i moved with my daughter whom she gave over custody to me just to get away from this crazy woman...i have custody or care of our Autistic daughter now who is 20 about to be 21...i receive on my daughters behalf as a Rep payee SSD for her and also Child support from my ex...my other daughter whom lives with my ex bought a plane tight in order for my daughter whom lives with me to come see them for the week of her 21st birthday...the conditions is my daughter behave and get a State ID which happened...but the next thing that happened was my ex wife then asked me for money for her expenses for her trip which i refused as i am not allowed to use her SSD for anything such as that...since then the woman has told me she is going to have me put in jail for multiple issues from quote un quote mismanaging my daughters funds to the fact that my daughter is over weight by my daughters own accord...she continues to threaten me with jail time saying i will get what is coming etc etc....and she does all of this in conversations with my daughter whom lives with me...i have tried to ignore...but my ex has on numerous occasions stirred issues for me and my current household...calling DCF which when they came saw the allegations unfounded! Now i use my daughter SSD and the child support to pay for her expenses from food to clothes to rent,elec as well as Dr Appt...and travel to and from appts etc. I need Advice or help in what to do because i know my ex even though it may go know where she will try to get me arrested by filing complaints with SSD and the child support offices etc....Please Help!!!

 

[army judge]

I am not sure if this the right place to post...because my situation is a complicated one at best...i have a ex wife of over 15 years whom now lives 2000 miles away from me in texas because i moved with my daughter whom she gave over custody to me just to get away from this crazy woman...i have custody or care of our Autistic daughter now who is 20 about to be 21...i receive on my daughters behalf as a Rep payee SSD for her and also Child support from my ex...my other daughter whom lives with my ex bought a plane tight in order for my daughter whom lives with me to come see them for the week of her 21st birthday...the conditions is my daughter behave and get a State ID which happened...but the next thing that happened was my ex wife then asked me for money for her expenses for her trip which i refused as i am not allowed to use her SSD for anything such as that...since then the woman has told me she is going to have me put in jail for multiple issues from quote un quote mismanaging my daughters funds to the fact that my daughter is over weight by my daughters own accord...she continues to threaten me with jail time saying i will get what is coming etc etc....and she does all of this in conversations with my daughter whom lives with me...i have tried to ignore...but my ex has on numerous occasions stirred issues for me and my current household...calling DCF which when they came saw the allegations unfounded! Now i use my daughter SSD and the child support to pay for her expenses from food to clothes to rent,elec as well as Dr Appt...and travel to and from appts etc. I need Advice or help in what to do because i know my ex even though it may go know where she will try to get me arrested by filing complaints with SSD and the child support offices etc....Please Help!!!

No one can have you arrested.
All someone can do is report what they believe to be a crime (or a suspicious circumstance) to a law enforcement agency.
If you aren't doing anything illegal, you have nothing to fear.
If DCF comes knocking, you can send them packing.
You are under no legal obligation to answer questions from the police, the FBI, DCF, or any other agency with cool initials.
You have a RIGHT to remain silent.
No one can lawfully enter your home without your permission, UNLESS they posses (and show you) a warrant.
No warrant, no can enter.
I suggest you remain calm, remain silent, and if approached POLITELY refuse to speak about anything to anyone.
If a warrant is produced, comply, but you are still not required to speak.
You can simply say, "I INVOKE, I'M NOT TALKING, and I want a lawyer."
Then continue to remain calm and offer no further comment.
It is okay to provide your name, date of birth, address, etc..., nothing else, no way, no how!

 

[txls]

She can threaten and she can harass, but if you're not doing anything wrong she will get nowhere with that. She doesn't have the power to put you in jail. If every parent of overweight children went to jail... well as you said, she's crazy. There's nothing you can do to prevent her from trying to cause trouble for you with child services etc. They will do their investigation and realize that her claims are unfounded. You and your daughter need to ignore her craziness. She only makes these threats in order to get you riled up. Don't let her.