Ex-wife telling 6yr old about sex change

[cstargrove]

The simple question is, can this be legal?

My ex-wife wants to be a man and that would be fine if she would at least wait for the minor children to reach adulthood. She admitted in a letter to openly discussing this subject with my 6 year son who is already confused about her choices. Now he talking about this like it is nothing. He knows intamite details of the changes she will be going through and talks about them freely. She has asked the children (there's an 11 year old involved as well) to call her Ryan. That also doesn't work in the mother/child relationship.
I am very worried about the welfare of my child at this point.

This is completely ridiculous and I need to know if can stop her before permanent psychological damages are inflicted on the children. Please, any help. I live in Oregon, USA.

 

[mafioso]

You can try counseling on her and kids so she can get help on how to address this transition. She is not breaking any law yet.

 

[cstargrove]

So you mean to say that she can tell him she "wants to be the daddy not the mommy" and this is acceptable behavior. Unacceptable! A six year olds mind can't begin to handle that kind of information (per a child psych). Much less the 12 year old that is also involved.

 

[mafioso]

I don't make the rules, or even decide what is right or wrong. I simply said she has not broken any law yet.