ex wont let me have my kids

[kerryjhnsn]

I had to live with my exhusband because of personal issues we have 2 kids together we have joint 50/50 custody. He has been telling me to leave for months now and i finally did, the kids knew where i was going and why because i talked to them. He works and i stayed home with the kids taking care of them etc. Now he will not let me see or have my kids on my time because i left and he says i cant have them also because he supported them money wise and i just did the personal hand on things. I cant afford to fight him and his parents have all sorts of money and also watch my kids for him. what can i do i did nothing wrong but leave like he said to do and now im being punished

 

[shrinkmaster]

Is he violating a court order?

 

[kerryjhnsn]

There is no court order. We have been divorced for six years. We have joint 50/50 custody. He got mad that i actually left when he told me to for the 100th time and just wont let me see my kids at all.

 

[mightymoose]

If you do not have a custody/visitation order then you need to get one. You will find free resources for this type of legal aid.

 

[shrinkmaster]

There is no court order. We have been divorced for six years. We have joint 50/50 custody. He got mad that i actually left when he told me to for the 100th time and just wont let me see my kids at all.

Then you dont have 50/50 custody all you have is whatever each of you desires basically. Without a court order either parent can do as he/she wishes

 

[Unregistered]

How do you take it back to court when she is in contempt and won't let you have them?