My exgirlfriend has posession of a car we bought. I was the only person working and she wanted a car but she talked me into putting her name on it. The car is titled in her name and mine and the bank loan is in both our names also. I want the car back or to have it sold to pay off the loan. She will not respond to letters from me or the bank. What can I do I don't want to just stop paying for it because I don't want bad credit. Can I just take it from her and how do I get her off the title?