Exhusband girlfriend drama

[jlgold]

Curious what I can do concerning my exhusbands girlfriend went psycho after I picked up my daughter last week. Apparently it upset her and she states to my ex I over stepped my boundries and I'm not wlecomed in her home. I rang doorbell and never went in the home.

So I ignore it. I know she is jealous because my ex and I are civil for our childrens sake. And she has never gotten along with her exes. We have been divorced since 2005.

Then, girlfriend emails me on facebook harassing me.

The icing on the cake was her two personal attacks she posted on her facebook status about me and my mothering. My children saw it. My minor children are 15 and 10. She also lives in his house. She moved in this past June.

What can I do to protect myself and my kids from her as I feel she is evil spirited and psycho?
Thank you in advance!

 

[army judge]

Curious what I can do concerning my exhusbands girlfriend went psycho after I picked up my daughter last week. Apparently it upset her and she states to my ex I over stepped my boundries and I'm not wlecomed in her home. I rang doorbell and never went in the home.

So I ignore it. I know she is jealous because my ex and I are civil for our childrens sake. And she has never gotten along with her exes. We have been divorced since 2005.

Then, girlfriend emails me on facebook harassing me.

The icing on the cake was her two personal attacks she posted on her facebook status about me and my mothering. My children saw it. My minor children are 15 and 10. She also lives in his house. She moved in this past June.

What can I do to protect myself and my kids from her as I feel she is evil spirited and psycho?
Thank you in advance!

You have eight more years of her, possibly. You definitely have eight more of him.

The best thing you can do is nothing, ignore her drama. A person does not need to respond or react to every slight. Remain dignified, stay above the fray, grin and bear it. There's nothing you can do about stupidity within the legal system. Just continue to be a great mom, get better every day, and raise two great kids.

 

[disagreeable]

Your children should certainly have their own opinions about whether you are a crappy parent or not. Reading about it on Facebook is not going to change anything. I suggest you stop living vicariously through Facebook, it will eliminate most of the issue from your life.

 

[shrinkmaster]

You do have a few options but don't expect this fixed quickly if at all.

. remove her ability to contact you via Facebook and ignore what others tell you about her postings
. contact Facebook if any of the comments violate their policy or terms of use
. contact other parent and request the GF cease as its impacting the children (not you)
. talk to your Lawyer and see if "parental alienation" applies here (long shot)

 

[jlgold]

My children "were" friends on her facebook and they informed me of what she posted and wrote. It upset my children when she made comments about how she is a better moter than I ever will be and and that I'm only a mother for attention and what not. The point is. Girlfriend went crazy because I picked up my kid. Originally it was going to be my 17 yr old niece. I work 3rd shift and let the kids go to his house when I work. So at 0800 on my drive home I call mother n law to see what's going on and She said my niece was still sleeping. I said I will go ahead and get my daughter as I do not want her home alone. She is only 10yrs old and there is no land line there. Girlfriend was mad because I did not call ex to say I was coming. In 8 yrs I never have. He works days and I work only 3 nights a week. Who picks up kids never mattered before it's either me or ex mother n law in this case it was going to be my niece until I decided to do it instead.

 

[jlgold]

Also, thank you for all comments. And thank you in advance for additional comments. I just feel like based on this womans behavior she is mentally unstable. To slander me on a public site where my kids, ex in laws can see and other parents can see that are mutual friends of myself and my ex. In her email to me she is telling me what is expected. #1 she has no legal right to tell, demand or request anything of me. Correct????? Honestly I could care less what she feels or thinks of me I know I'm an excellent single mother of two! I'm just pissed my kids saw her craziness.