FutureNurse
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I live in Colorado and shop at a store called (deleted). I was shopping at a location I don't ordinarily go to when this happened. I had completed most of my shopping and was at the front of the store when I thought about purchasing firewood for a get together for a friend's recent birthday who has a fire pit in the mountains. I pushed my cart just barely out the door and looked to the left to see if there was any firewood outside at the store front. I was immediately approached by the store's security guard and I told him "sir I am not done shopping, I was looking for firewood, I have bought firewood outside at other (deleted)". He did not give me a moment of explanation, accused me of stealing groceries. I tried explaining that I was looking at the front of the store to see where the firewood was and wanted my cart to help load it up, but he didn't listen and corralled me into the security office where he proceeded to call the cops on me all without having an actual conversation with me.
The police were called and I was given a ticket that specifies the court date. The security guard was a bit of an asshole, but the cop was OK, he compared the ticket to a traffic ticket. I'd love to believe him, but am really quite worried about how this might effect my future. I have strong values and have never been in trouble with the law so I feel really clueless as to what my next steps should be. I plan to go to nursing school and having a criminal record of theft I believe would jeopardize my future goals. I am very worried at the penalties as I have read a misdemeanor 2 includes jail time and a hefty fee. More than anything it feels awful to be accused of something I did not do. There is really no evidence that I can think of that I shoplifted, just a small push of my cart of groceries just outside the door to look for firewood, my back 2 wheels of the cart may very well have been still in the store when I as approached.
So here are my questions:
1: Should I hire a lawyer (must add I don't really have the ability to hire one, but if this is necessary then maybe I could find a way)?
2: Should I/Can I instead represent myself? If so, how should I prepare? If anyone has experience with representing themselves against a misdemeanor any experiences you share are really appreciated.
3: What sort of penalty do first time offending shoplifters usually face?
4: What do I need to do/prove that I had no intent of shoplifting and that I was just looking for firewood! I am so blown away by how all of this happened. I have a court date and no-one to talk to and very little resources. I know myself well and have strong values I live by, so such an accusation is very damaging to my spirit. I really just need a clue as to what it is I need to do/say/prepare for…
Please any help, advice, shared experiences, recommendations, do's and don'ts are very appreciated! Thank you and hope to hear your thoughts. I am losing sleep over the fact that my future could be jeopardized from something I have been falsely accused of. Any information may help me obtain some peace of mind. Thank you so much.
The police were called and I was given a ticket that specifies the court date. The security guard was a bit of an asshole, but the cop was OK, he compared the ticket to a traffic ticket. I'd love to believe him, but am really quite worried about how this might effect my future. I have strong values and have never been in trouble with the law so I feel really clueless as to what my next steps should be. I plan to go to nursing school and having a criminal record of theft I believe would jeopardize my future goals. I am very worried at the penalties as I have read a misdemeanor 2 includes jail time and a hefty fee. More than anything it feels awful to be accused of something I did not do. There is really no evidence that I can think of that I shoplifted, just a small push of my cart of groceries just outside the door to look for firewood, my back 2 wheels of the cart may very well have been still in the store when I as approached.
So here are my questions:
1: Should I hire a lawyer (must add I don't really have the ability to hire one, but if this is necessary then maybe I could find a way)?
2: Should I/Can I instead represent myself? If so, how should I prepare? If anyone has experience with representing themselves against a misdemeanor any experiences you share are really appreciated.
3: What sort of penalty do first time offending shoplifters usually face?
4: What do I need to do/prove that I had no intent of shoplifting and that I was just looking for firewood! I am so blown away by how all of this happened. I have a court date and no-one to talk to and very little resources. I know myself well and have strong values I live by, so such an accusation is very damaging to my spirit. I really just need a clue as to what it is I need to do/say/prepare for…
Please any help, advice, shared experiences, recommendations, do's and don'ts are very appreciated! Thank you and hope to hear your thoughts. I am losing sleep over the fact that my future could be jeopardized from something I have been falsely accused of. Any information may help me obtain some peace of mind. Thank you so much.
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