Shoplifting, Larceny, Robbery, Theft Felony Thef

[flintstones]

I was in a 6 year dating relationship which recently ended because he threatened physical violence. We were engaged to be married. I lived in his house for about 4 years and paid half utilities, living expenses, things for the house, etc. I have sold all of my furniture and belongings because I was not allowed to bring my stuff in to the house (he already had furniture and wanted to keep his own stuff). We were saving for our wedding. Since the engagement ended, I took the savings to get into a new place, furniture and other items I had to get rid of. I have not given back the ring. He is threatening with having me charged with felony theft for the cash of about $3,500 and engagement ring in Missouri. He has the receipt for the engagement ring, and kept the receipt for my wedding band that I purchased on my credit card. Can he have me charged with theft?

 

[jacksgal]

If the cash taken was not yours he can certainly file a complaint yes

 

[flintstones]

It is not his. What happens when a complaint is filed?

 

[CdwJava]

This may be considered a civil matter as the ring could be considered a gift under MO state law.

One resource on the subject can be found here and one for MO law in particular:

http://www.weissandassoc.com/article_giftcontemplation.html

It would seem that if the defendant (you, flinststones) broke off the engagement, the law would likely state that you have to return the ring. If HE broke it off, then you may be in the clear to keep it.

In any event, this is not likely to be considered theft but, instead, a civil matter for a civil court to decide. In other words, if he wants his ring back he will likely have to sue you.

- Carl

 

[jacksgal]

No one but me seems to be addressing the money taken only the ring!

 

[CdwJava]

No one but me seems to be addressing the money taken only the ring!

If it was mutually accessible in a joint account, or stashed away by both of them, that is a civil issue pure and simple. The only item that would seem to be in contention would be the ring.

Now, if she forged his signature on a bank withdrawal or check, or broke open HIS piggy bank to get the cash, that would be a different story. Otherwise, I'm taking a guess that it was a mutual pot of money. Perhaps the OP might clarify.

- Carl

 

[flintstones]

It was a mutual pot of money. I have decided to give the ring back and a portion of the cash. Since I got rid of all of my posessions to be with him, he agreed in writing to a month's rent, a deposit (most places take 1/2 month's rent) and $700 for furniture. Specific rental amounts were not discussed. The portion of the cash I'm keeping meets the terms previously agreed upon.

 

[CdwJava]

Sounds like a reasonable way to resolve it.

Good luck in the future, and hopefully you will one day meet someone it WILL work out with.

- Carl