Filing under 'Cruel and Inhuman Treatment' with no proof?

[Sammi]

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[Proserpina]

What exactly is he alleging?

 

[Sammi]

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[army judge]

Since he has asked for the divorce in the first place, I have not had another opportunity to speak to him. The only way to talk to him is through his parents' home phone line, and I would doubt that I would even be 'allowed' to talk to him if I called. In the papers I received it does not specify exactly what cruel and inhuman treatement I did. We had only been married at the time for about 3 weeks or so, and had not even had one fight. I never hit him, called him any names at all, or even yelled at him, so I won't know until the court date on the 20th EXACTLY what he is saying I did.

You don't have to get a divorce.
You should have your marriage annulled.
He doesn't want to be married to you.
It isn't what you want to hear.
Nevertheless, he has said it.
You must listen.
Don't fight to be with someone that doesn't value you and want to be with you.
Getting out now isn't what you want.
But, he was honest.
This one is over.
You must move on for your sake!


Why?
Does it matter?
He probably never wanted to marry you.


Are you of different religions?
Are you of different races?
How old are you?
How old is he?
What level of education do you have?
What level of education does he have?
Did either of you work?
Do you have any children together?

The answer you seek is in the questions above.

Please, don't answer them publicly.

I only want you to answer them for yourself.

When you read your answers on paper, you'll have your why.

Agree to the divorce, and save yourselves some money.
This hurts to hear.
But, he's being honest with you.
This is better to learn now, than in 10 years and you have 3 kids.

Please, for your sanity and emotional well being, move on.
Don't beg him, don't cry in front of him, just be strong for yourself.
If he comes back, he'll only change his mind again.
This won't go away.
This can't be fixed.
He doesn't want to fix it.
This person is bad news to have in your life.
Don't, however, give up on love.
The REAL Mister Right is out there waiting on you.
This bum was Mister Wrong!

 

[Sammi]

I do want out of the marriage now. I found out that he lied to me A LOT throughout the whole thing. I only found out about this when his boss came to talk to me and things showed up on my husband's background check that was run while he was employed. The only thing is, I will not agree to cruel and inhuman treatment. He has to prove that which he will have a very hard time doing considering nothing like that ever occured. If he would change it to just irreconcilable differences where him and I are responsible for our own costs, I would sign it. Also, I was told by a lawyer here in Mississippi that the only recognized grounds for an annulment are bigamy and incest.