I do not even know where to begin. I am a single mother/grandmother that lived with my two daughters and two grandchildren. Tragically, I lost my 16yo to an accidental overdose 9/30/14 @ 11:05pm. At 4:00am on 10/01/2014, DCF and the police were at my door to remove my grandchildren from the home because it as reported that the home was in disarray and there was paraphernalia throughout the house (which they considered a hookah as a "bong") I admit that the house was not clean and tidy. My grandbabies were taken into state custody. At 8:00am, because it was alleged that ALL adults were on illicit drugs, my daughter and I were subjected to a drug test. (which was negative on both accounts) No one from DCF returned to the home to see if we cleaned, which we did. Within 30 days I moved my family from the home to a new/safer residence. We have complied with everything (which I pay out of pocket for) included parenting classes, random drug screens and counseling. I now have a home where there are 4 bedrooms, the grandchildren have separate rooms and a yard along with a great community to live in. We are running into walls because the judge has deemed me an unfit mother due to my 16yo overdosing and does not agree with returning the kids to my home. The judge has not heard a word from me and refuses to. What in the world can I do?? I did not have knowledge of my daughter having any drug issues because she was a normal teen, above average in my eyes because she was in school and worked full time with a bubbly personality. What/where do I go from here? My family is my life and I need my grandchildren back home. The kids parents need their children back home.
Any advice?
Any advice?