I'm American married to a Mexican, his mother sent him here when he was only 13 she didn't get him a visa though. We have been together 3 years married a year and a half and share one child together and hes looking to adopt my oldest. I know immigration keeps changing their laws some people I know are able to get green cards for their husbands but I can't afford to spend thousands of dollars to get turned down. I don't know where to begin nor do I know if I have the money to begin. They are taking licenses away in IN now and making things harder and harder we have a legitamate marriage and love eachother and our children very much! What can I do?