Harrasment False acusations

[rcece2005]

I have been having so amy problems with my neighbors for 4 years atleast. I have had to put cameras, fence. To avoid their constant abuse. They are constantly harrasming me and my family. We used to be friends until, a new years party and it all went down hill since. She has accused us of so many things, We have been to court a few times once was for me to get a ppo against her, this was my first time doing this i did not know how the process worked i took all my pics i had a letter from neighbors showing how the constantly harrass them. They have made death threats to me and my family and neighbors that have heard it and witnessed it. Well we went to court and they lawyered up i did not have one, like i said i dont know how the process works. Which they do because they have had a lady across the street from them evicted. My ppo was denied, but they gave it to her, she had audio from some device making a threat my husband hade made. their was a ppo made for 6 months. And those 6 months they went out of their way to constantly bullyie my family and go out of their way to get my family to violate that ppo. So I went and purchsed survellience cameras to be put outside to monitor everything. She was already videotaping us for months before i had purchased them. Arounfd this time she had called the cops on us so many times to get my family to violate ppo, while they would always start problems. By the way this property that all this is happening at is a Garage lot. Not their home, they live 2 houses down from us. So one day ppo is still in affect they are out htier she comes from her home with a camera videotaping like she always did trying to nit pick on anything she can, my husband pulls his camera out and starts video taping them sets it on the car. Well she sees him do that she hurries up and calls police, says that thier is a ppo out and his recording her. officer comes to my home and i show him my viseo that she does this every day. so he sends tp prosectors office we go to court had to hire a lawyer cuz they were saying we violated the ppo order, long story short case was dismissed. All this monthe while ppo was in order it was hell for me and my family, i bought a fence to put up to avoid contact i even went as far as fencing my whol;e back yard. so their would be no contact. they would go upstairs to their garage and would be able to look down in my fence so they could see what we was doing. PPO expired lots of polce reports were made. The polce dept. is starting to get mad cz of all the police reports. One officer says why dont we try to talk things out. Which we do, my husband and her husband where good friends before all this. They talk we let everything go. well one day they are out drinking acting dumb like the way they do when they drink, they start arguing makking eachother mad, police come out say my husband assaulted her husband. Months later my husband had to pay 500.00 bond cuz of that during the monthe of all this we paid bond money had to hire a lawyer agin bought more cameras lost atleast 6 days of work cuz of court have no contact with them again with them going out of their way bullying us making all kinds of reports harrasimg anyone and everyone that comes to my home. going out of thier way being assholes. Now they are harrsing other neighbors on the block. i go and speak to police and tell them how far are they going to let them harrass everyone on the block they go start problems get everyone all riled up then go home and play victim and call police. they dismiss the case, again i go buy more cameras cuz the bullying is getting worse. They make this mettal thing and went and shot it all up, with big bullet holes in it and every time they get mad they put it up in between the property lines halloween comes around they put up your next sighns with body parts and knife then she carves a pumpkin with my name on it saying fat ass & my name i take pictires of it. call my lawyer up, he says nothing can be done cuz of the holiday it is. then she puts a camera up on the top of her garage looking on to my back yard that picks up audio i call my lawyer he says call police i did. The minute cop leaves she takes it down. couple days later pass she calls ploce then she puts another different camera up. on to back of my home she sees when we come and go from our home, let me remind you she does not live hear its just a garage. When i leave work she is foloowing me im tired of all this abuse. Police are not doing anything I want them tp pay some how. What can i do?? I want to sue them for the constant harrasment.

 

[army judge]

Your two best tactics to deal with this are: IGNORE THEM, or MOVE.



As you have discovered the law is of no help.

Other than your side and their side, no one cares.

And, no one will ever care.

So, it's up to you to end this idiocy.

Ignoring quarrelsome, troublesome people tends to work.

Just stop by staying far away from them and pretending they don't exist.

Otherwise, you can move to other locations, even going so far as another country.

 

[Betty3]

You have a lawyer. There isn't much more you can do in these situations sometimes except, as army judge noted, ignore them or consider moving. If you ignore them, sometimes they will eventually stop. Sorry.