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[Lisa Voss]

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North Carolina

My husband and I took in a homeless woman, she won't stay in the house, she sleeps in her car. She comes in to eat and take a shower. Not once has she said thank you. Now she is being mean to my husband for trying to help her find help and resources. If we ask her to move on, what can she do but move on? Can she stay on our property? We never gave her a key to the house. We just want to know how hard it can be to get her to move on.

 

[adjusterjack]

My husband and I took in a homeless woman

Sorry to have to say this but that was just plain stupid.

We just want to know how hard it can be to get her to move on.

When she's outside in her car, just tell her she has to leave.

If she doesn't leave, call the police and report a trespasser.

 

[army judge]

If we ask her to move on, what can she do but move on?

She could do many things.

She could start crying.

She could become violent.

She could scream, "Your husband sexually abuses me. I'm going to tell the cops, unless you start paying me$50 a day and let me live in your house."

She might leave quietly.

She might have a mental breakdown.

She could whip out a pistol and attack both of you.

She might attack you with a sharp machete.

She might even smile sheepishly, shrug her shoulders, and say, "As you wish ma'am, I'll be gone within the hour. Thank you for all of your kindness. I appreciate and applaud you."

We just want to know how hard it can be to get her to move on.

It might be impossible, you'll find out when you order her to leave.

In order to incentivize her to leave your property, offer her 100 bucks, after she's left your property, and her vehicle is parked on the city street.

 

[zddoodah]

If we ask her to move on, what can she do but move on?

No one here knows what this unknown person is capable of.

Can she stay on our property?

We have no reason to believe she isn't capable of refusing to leave.

How long has this arrangement been in place?