yikes_stripes
New Member
I was charged 2 weeks ago with a hit and run, a dwi and assault to a law officer. The hit and run showed no damage on my car, but my insurance has decided to pay for the other car's damage. She had just a scratch or two, I didn't even realize I had bumped her. The cop pulled into my driveway and was immediately verbally abusive and intimidating (I'm a 35 year old single mom of a 9 year old son, and have only gotten a couple minor traffic violations).. He suspected me of being impaired (I'm on a new anti-convulsant that apparently cannot be mixed with even the slightest bit of alcohol), but I refused to blow, having been told by a friend that was the best option if ever pulled. The officer charged me with assault because I resisted arrest and was "combative", I did not try to cause any harm to him, he terrified me and I'm only 5'3 and 110 lbs. I still have severe bruising on my arms and shoulders, and did have a knot on my head from him pushing me into my car (he broke a plastic piece on my car with my head). He also threw me on the ground with such force I lost control of bodily functions and he kept me in handcuffs so tight and for so long I have numbness in my thumbs. I have since been diagnosed with post-traumatic stress disorder, as I can't sleep or eat and am terrified of even seeing a cop car, much less an officer.... I have hired an attorney but I have no real idea what I'm facing and my court date isn't until May 1st. My lawyer has a history with this cop and states he is a lunatic.... I remember less and less everyday about the incident because it was so traumatic. I cannot even fathom serving jailtime and not being with my son. I have just finished college and start my new job next week. I feel it is all ruined now..... Please help me, I need some encouragement.