How can I make her stop contacting my husband??

[maryann72]

"She" will find a way and/or excuse to contact my husband . . . bit of a long story, brief interlude with her while husband and I were living apart for a month and unsure of our future . . . they had been conversing via text mainly for months prior to this actual physical interlude. She is and has been involved with a married man before, during, and after my husband, and is so currently . . . yet she will find an excuse to contact my husband . . . she assured my before nothing was going on between her and my husband, obviously a lie, and she is aware that we are together . . . we never officially separated and did not divorce, we are still married and we are together. I have blocked her from his Facebook account, I am tempted to block her number via our cell phone carrier . . . I don't want to anger my husband, as if I am keeping tabs on him or keeping my thumb on him . . . . he only wants to be cordial to her as she works with some of his acquaintances . . . but I do not want contact between the at all. What can I do to legally stop her?? Anything?? A cease and desist all communications letter?? I'm at my wits end!!!

 

[Proserpina]

Uh...seriously?

Your HUSBAND needs to stop contact.

HE is enabling the situation.

If HE chooses to keep up the contact, there is quite literally nothing you can do to stop it.

 

[army judge]

No adult can make another adult do (or not do) anything.
Heck, some parents can't even make their children behave!

That said, tell "hubby" what you will do, if he doesn't cease and desist. Then be sure you do it. Otherwise, he won't stop hooking up with these "skeezers"!!!