How do i protect my little girl

[kd1126]

I am a mother to a 2 month old baby girl. Her dad and I were suppost to get married September 18, 2010. He left and said he was unhappy and had been. On the time of leaving he left us with no money buy whiping out the bank account when she was sick and leaving me with a car i could not drive. He is now wanting to take me to court for joint custody but I have a huge fear she will not be taken care of when we lived together all he did was ignore her. When she started crying he handed her to someone else he would never want to change her diaper feed her or anything the computer was more important. I let him have her one weekend and i got her back and she had spent it with him and his chick friend (girlfriend) after only being gone 4 days. He has anger issues and he calls me late at night 10 to 15 times and text my phone til it basically dies. what can i do to make sure that he cant get my daughter for anything? he would leave nights at a time and not come back or let you know he was going off multiple times i have been left with our daughter on my own. he jumps from girl to girl and he is not the one taking care of her when he has here what can i do to protect my daughter and no she is taken care of is there anyway to not get child support and him just leave us alone?

Thanks for your time

 

[army judge]

I am a mother to a 2 month old baby girl. Her dad and I were suppost to get married September 18, 2010. He left and said he was unhappy and had been. On the time of leaving he left us with no money buy whiping out the bank account when she was sick and leaving me with a car i could not drive. He is now wanting to take me to court for joint custody but I have a huge fear she will not be taken care of when we lived together all he did was ignore her. When she started crying he handed her to someone else he would never want to change her diaper feed her or anything the computer was more important. I let him have her one weekend and i got her back and she had spent it with him and his chick friend (girlfriend) after only being gone 4 days. He has anger issues and he calls me late at night 10 to 15 times and text my phone til it basically dies. what can i do to make sure that he cant get my daughter for anything? he would leave nights at a time and not come back or let you know he was going off multiple times i have been left with our daughter on my own. he jumps from girl to girl and he is not the one taking care of her when he has here what can i do to protect my daughter and no she is taken care of is there anyway to not get child support and him just leave us alone?

Thanks for your time

There are many things you can do.
First of all, as you were NOT married, he has no LEGAL rights to this child.

You are the sole, legal guardian as of present.
If he wants parental rights, he will have to take you to court.
There are other steps, but until he goes to court and obtains a judge's ruling, he has NO say.

If you want to keep him from getting a say, move.
You are free to move to anywhere you wish.
You are the ONLY legal guardian.
He'll have to find you to serve you, and pursue any parental rights a court might award him.

The longer you wait, the easier it will be for him to legally obtain custody.
If you stay put, so be it.
Until he takes you to court and a judge rules, he still has NO rights to the child.

All you have to do is ignore him.
Change your phone number and don't give it to him.
Don't communicate anymore with him.
He's shown you what he thinks of you, sadly.
But, at least you know.

It seems your relationship has broken down beyond repair.

 

[Proserpina]

And far better to know now rather than after you were married!

Now you have to focus on yourself and your child; at the moment as AJ said your ex doesn't even have a child (legally speaking).

Georgia requires a separate legitimation procedure in addition to the normal paternity establishment actions; take care of yourself and your child and let Dad go to court to get his rights.

 

[kd1126]

he plans on taking me to court so what is there for me to do? he calls late at night messages me anyway he can. is there anyway for it just to stay me and my baby?

 

[Proserpina]

Not really, no - he has the right to be a parent to his child.

Only a court can take his rights away; he may even eventually end up with joint custody so you need to be prepared for that.