i married a woman i found out was cheating on me already she has two social security numbers and two last names so she married me with her new name and social and never wanted anything more than money while i was in the military which i mainly married her to take care of her and our son...i tried to go about the route of getting divorced without a lawyer but ive been ignored on this because i found out that she married the other man with her original name and social and has tried to erase knowledge of the social security number she married me under...she is a bigamist but i cant prove it, i know now that i claim her as my wife on my tax return but she files a completely different tax return for herself, dont know how to proceed being that divorce is new to me...im in florida and i need a new york lawyer apparently, i really want peace of mind