My mother just passed away. My sister claims I am not to get any of mom's jewelry or anything. She said there is no will. She claims she is executor and has been since 2003. I have been accused of stealing jewelry and since I live 300 mikes away it's kind of hard to just pop over and take anything, especially since I didn't have a set of keys to her apartment. I just need to know what I can do to see if there is a will.