Husband is withholding

[2009fool]

Husband and I have been having problems..he has cheated and then has tried to do it again. We got into a big fight and I left to diffuse the situation. I spoke with him yesterday and was planning on returning but I didn't like the attitude he had. He basically said that if I wanted to come back and help with his daughter and pay bills then fine. I felt that if I went back then it would just be yet another argument. So I didn't. He called me last night and accused me of screwing around with a friend of his and told me that I wasn't allowed anywhere near the house.
I spoke with him today and he said I could come get my things but that he didn't know what I thought I was geting. Everything was his. He also told me that in no way shape or form was I coming back to stay there. He was tired of my lazy fat ass laying around and mooching off of him. I am unemployed at this time but I am receiving unemployment. The reason for the unemployment is that we had just moved to Pueblo at the end of Nov.
When I left I took very few articles of clothing and I had my friends pick me up from Denver a 100 miles away. I have very little money left, no vehicle, and really no place to go. Is he allowed to do this?

 

[irish223]

No, that's the marital home, so you have every right to stay there until one of you files for divorce and the judge tells you otherwise.

 

[2009fool]

I want to Thank you for responding so quickly. I do have a few more inquiries, if I may.
My husband is OTR Truckdriver and is gone quite alot. I know that he has contacted the landlord (a friend of his Dads) and that the landlord is keeping an eye on the place. I would contact the Sherriffs Dept. to let them know of my plans...to go through boxes and collect my things. It would be at the very least a 2 day project. Most of our things were still packed as we just moved in Nov. This would be option #1.
Option #2 would be to go down there and just grab all of the boxes and go through them at my friends house. Which, of course. would take only a few hours. After going through the boxes they would be available for him to pick up.
Option #2 would be the quickest but I am not sure of the ramifications of taking things that are not mine.
Then the final question is, what if I go all of the way down there and he has changed the locks since I left? Do I have the right to contact the landlord and request entry?
If at all possible I would appreciate you answering these questions as I have been getting the run around with the lawyers I have contacted. They merely answering the question short and sweet and do not elaborate. Thank you for helping me.